Help, I'm Offended!

 Wisdom, Pt. 6 | October 6, 2024Pastor Wes Morris Proverbs 19:11 (NIV) A person’s wisdom yields patience; it is to one’s glory to overlook an offense.Proverbs 19:11 (MSG) Smart people know how to hold their tongue; their grandeur is to forgive and forget.Matthew 5:11-12 (NLT) God blesses you when people mock you and persecute you and lie about you and say all sorts of evil things against you because you are my followers. Be happy about it! Be very glad! For a great reward awaits you in heaven. ✓ A Hard HeartProverbs 18:19 (TLB) It is harder to win back the friendship of an offended brother than to capture a fortified city. His anger shuts you out like iron bars.Jeremiah 17:9-10 (NLT) The human heart is the most deceitful of all things, and desperately wicked. Who really knows how bad it is? But I, the Lord, search all hearts and examine secret motives.✓ Selective Memory✓ A Victim MentalityHELP, I’M OFFENDED I. CHOOSE TO OVERLOOK THE OFFENSE.Proverbs 10:12 (CEV) Hatred stirs up trouble; love overlooks the wrongs that others do.Love looks past the behavior and has compassion for the pain in their life.  II. KEEP MY HEART FREE FROM UNFORGIVENESS.Colossians 3:13 (NLT) You must make allowance for each other’s faults and forgive the person who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others.Romans 12:17-20 (NIV) Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everybody. If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. Do not take revenge, my friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: “It is mine to avenge; I will repay,” says the Lord. On the contrary: “If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink. III. CHOOSE TO LOVE, EVEN WHEN IT HURTS.John 13:1 (NIV) It was just before the Passover Festival. Jesus knew that the hour had come for him to leave this world and go to the Father. Having loved his own who were in the world, he loved them to the end.I Corinthians 13:7-8 (ESV) Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends.