Help Me Find Love, Zander Fryer & Maddy Applin episode artwork

EPISODE · Feb 14, 2020 · 38 MIN

Help Me Find Love, Zander Fryer & Maddy Applin

from 10,000 NOs · host Matthew Del Negro

Former 10,000 "No"s guest Zander Fryer met his fiance, Maddy Applin from across the world after being pushed to post a Facebook Live in his Business Group in 2017 entitled "Help Me Find Love". He was in San Diego and she was in Australia.  They now live together in Encinitas, California.  You'll hear the details of how Maddy moved halfway across the world for love, but all you need to know right now is that your approach to life, whether in business or in love, determines the results you will get.  In keeping with our theme, if you're lonely this Valentine's Day perhaps you need to examine where you are limiting your own opportunities with internal "no"s that are preventing you from meeting the person of your dreams or creating the life and career that you desire.    SHOW NOTES:  Meeting together in 2017 from a Facebook Live event, (5:07). “This is something that a lot of people do. Once you’ve had your heart broken once, you never want to have your heart broken again.”, (9:55). “You can get really comfortable just crafting your craft, and that is the comfortable piece. I got really comfortable working on myself because that is the piece that I enjoyed and that made me feel good, but actually putting myself out there and going on dates is the really scary piece.”, (11:05). Maddy listening to a podcast and finding out about Zander and his work, (13:27). Making a commitment to yourself to get out of your comfort zone with bold requests, (15:09). Maddy persevering by reaching out again after a botched “second date”, (20:45). How Maddy works with her clients around belief systems and dealing with their subconscious limiting beliefs, (27:20). “They might have the outward success and everything they have dreamed of, but they still don’t feel successful.”, (28:16). How Zander’s approach unprograms our identities and beliefs that have created the problems we experience, (30:43).    GUEST LINKS:  Website: More on Zander's Sh*t You Don't Learn in College  Website: More on Maddy's Build a Millionaire Mindset    SHOW LINKS:  Purchase 10,000 "No"s Apparel Here to Support the Show  Matt's Amazon Influencer Page (shop thru this site for items mentioned in interviews to support 10KNos at no extra cost to you.)    FOR ANNOUNCEMENTS AND PROMO VIDEOS OF WHO'S NEXT, FOLLOW:   Instagram:  @mattydel  Twitter:  @MatthewDelNegro  Facebook:  Matthew Del Negro Fan Site  LinkedIn:  @MatthewDelNegro  Email us feedback, guest suggestions or to be added to our MAILING LIST     RELATED PAST EPISODES OF 10,000 “No”s:  Ep 7: Train Your Brain, Hypnotherapist & Meditation Teacher Amy Budden  Ep 11: Panic Attacks to Perfect Life, Craig Ballantyne  Ep 46: Sh*t You Don’t Learn in College, Zander Fryer   Browse Our Episode Archives at 10000nos.com    If you like what you hear, please pass on the word. You can also Subscribe If you like what you hear, please Subscribe, leave an iTunes review and spread the word. You can also listen to all episodes at www.10000nos.com  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Former 10,000 "No"s guest Zander Fryer met his fiance, Maddy Applin from across the world after being pushed to post a Facebook Live in his Business Group in 2017 entitled "Help Me Find Love". He was in San Diego and she was in Australia.  They now live together in Encinitas, California.  You'll hear the details of how Maddy moved halfway across the world for love, but all you need to know right now is that your approach to life, whether in business or in love, determines the results you will get.  In keeping with our theme, if you're lonely this Valentine's Day perhaps you need to examine where you are limiting your own opportunities with internal "no"s that are preventing you from meeting the person of your dreams or creating the life and career that you desire.    SHOW NOTES:  Meeting together in 2017 from a Facebook Live event, (5:07). “This is something that a lot of people do. Once you’ve had your heart broken once, you never want to have your heart broken again.”, (9:55). “You can get really comfortable just crafting your craft, and that is the comfortable piece. I got really comfortable working on myself because that is the piece that I enjoyed and that made me feel good, but actually putting myself out there and going on dates is the really scary piece.”, (11:05). Maddy listening to a podcast and finding out about Zander and his work, (13:27). Making a commitment to yourself to get out of your comfort zone with bold requests, (15:09). Maddy persevering by reaching out again after a botched “second date”, (20:45). How Maddy works with her clients around belief systems and dealing with their subconscious limiting beliefs, (27:20). “They might have the outward success and everything they have dreamed of, but they still don’t feel successful.”, (28:16). How Zander’s approach unprograms our identities and beliefs that have created the problems we experience, (30:43).    GUEST LINKS:  Website: More on Zander's Sh*t You Don't Learn in College  Website: More on Maddy's Build a Millionaire Mindset    SHOW LINKS:  Purchase 10,000 "No"s Apparel Here to Support the Show  Matt's Amazon Influencer Page (shop thru this site for items mentioned in interviews to support 10KNos at no extra cost to you.)    FOR ANNOUNCEMENTS AND PROMO VIDEOS OF WHO'S NEXT, FOLLOW:   Instagram:  @mattydel  Twitter:  @MatthewDelNegro  Facebook:  Matthew Del Negro Fan Site  LinkedIn:  @MatthewDelNegro  Email us feedback, guest suggestions or to be added to our MAILING LIST     RELATED PAST EPISODES OF 10,000 “No”s:  Ep 7: Train Your Brain, Hypnotherapist & Meditation Teacher Amy Budden  Ep 11: Panic Attacks to Perfect Life, Craig Ballantyne  Ep 46: Sh*t You Don’t Learn in College, Zander Fryer   Browse Our Episode Archives at 10000nos.com    If you like what you hear, please pass on the word. You can also Subscribe If you like what you hear, please Subscribe, leave an iTunes review and spread the word. You can also listen to all episodes at www.10000nos.com  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

NOW PLAYING

Help Me Find Love, Zander Fryer & Maddy Applin

0:00 38:50

No transcript for this episode yet

We transcribe on demand. Request one and we'll notify you when it's ready — usually under 10 minutes.

Anti-Aging Hacks Faraz Khan Welcome to Anti-Aging Hacks podcast, where you take control and improve your body and mind so you look and feel young, have high energy and focus, and have the tools to live a long and healthy life. Anti-Aging Hacks was born out of a quest to slow down Faraz Khan's parents aging so he could spend more quality time with them. It then evolved to learning about tactics he could apply to slow down his own aging and live a long healthy life.Faraz Khan interviews the top health, anti-aging, longevity, and biohacking experts in the world to bring you the tips and tricks you need to easily look and feel your best, upgrade your energy and focus, boost your confidence, and live a long and healthy life.Faraz tries all these techniques on himself so he can tell you stories of personal experiences that can help you make your own decisions regarding your health and longevity. Just 10 years ago, it was impossible to slow down aging. Now it's not only possible for cheap, but we are close to revers Explicit Running In Slow Motion with Sidney & Tamra Smith You Hear Good Things podcast network Comedian Sidney Smith and his wife Tamra — a sharp-witted educator with a soft spot for flowers — team up to navigate life, goals, and culture at their own hilarious, at times, in-depth pace. They call it “running in slow motion,” and that pretty much sums up the vibe. This isn’t a marriage podcast (their union ranks a generous 5 out of 10, after all), but it is a refreshingly honest, smart, and funny take on relationships, ambition, and everyday chaos. From real talk to pop culture and unexpected interviews, it’s a joyride of relatable moments and laugh-out-loud observations. Explicit The Cocky Top Podcast Studio 66 THE Cocky Top Podcast is a sports podcast by a divided friendship. Brian, an avid South Carolina Gamecock and Tyler, an ’All Vol’ Tennesseean have been friends for over 10 years, but the thing that has always divided them was college football. On this show, they will discuss their individual teams throughout the football season, as well as, other high profile games around The SEC; with other high profile games, as a bonus.Tune into Cocky Top every Monday and Friday. Follow along and let us know who your favorite team is and how their season is going by emailing us at [email protected]. You can also find more by searching @studio_66tld on Instagram and Studio 66 on Facebook. Explicit Crybaby Gemma Hobart If there is one thing I can do, it is talk. And if there is a second thing I can do, it is cry. Enter, The Crybaby podcast. Covering my experiences, mental health, social commentary, pop culture, my top 10 most iconic vines, and just about anything that takes my fancy at any given moment, to me talking is healing and information is the greatest currency. Welcome to the inside of Miss Gemma Hobart's brain, sorry it's a mess.Instagram: @crybaby.podcast @gem_hobart Explicit

Frequently Asked Questions

How long is this episode of 10,000 NOs?

This episode is 38 minutes long.

When was this 10,000 NOs episode published?

This episode was published on February 14, 2020.

What is this episode about?

Former 10,000 "No"s guest Zander Fryer met his fiance, Maddy Applin from across the world after being pushed to post a Facebook Live in his Business Group in 2017 entitled "Help Me Find Love". He was in San Diego and she was in Australia.  They now...

Can I download this 10,000 NOs episode?

Yes, you can download this episode by clicking the download button on the episode player, or subscribe to the podcast in your preferred podcast app for automatic downloads.
URL copied to clipboard!