Helping Without Hurting

We all like to know when we've done something helpful. Whether it's the money we give, the time we volunteer, or the causes we promote, it's a good feeling to be charitable. But what if our helpful intentions lead to unhelpful consequences more than we realize? Is it possible that our help can be both good and bad? How do we know when our helping might hurt? And what does it look like to love, serve, and help in a way that actually helps?