Holding Space to Facilitate Change

Do you struggle putting words to what is going on in the body? Do your clients? Ever wonder what it means to hold space for another?  In today’s podcast physical therapist, Heather Hannam, discusses how to develop the ability to present for a client and provides the language to express it. Beginning this journey takes vulnerability. It is not easy for people to be vulnerable yet daily you ask your clients to be vulnerable with you. A definition of vulnerability is there is nothing to defend. Just as a soft heart is a sign of strength. By doing your own work to learn how to be vulnerable or develop a soft heart, you as a therapist are able to honor and recognize the pain that each client brings with them. This helps you open up to the ability to hold space for your clients.  Questions are a great way to teach a client an emotional language. Examples are: Where in the body are you feeling that? Is it mad, sad, glad or afraid? What number is it 0-10? Is there a color associated with it? The more comfortable you are sitting with your own pains or discomforts, the greater your ability to associate and facilitate a session with a client will be. You, as the therapist, become the pendulum in the room and synchronize the client to your present state. This affords a boundary of safety to the client. By increasing their feelings of safety they are more likely to share the root of the issue. By meeting your client where they are you can help facilitate change in the client. You can, then, help them recognize the differences they feel in their own body, so they embody that change. Remember, we are all just matter when it comes to working on ourselves or others.  Matter is just made of space and energy. According to Heather, 99% of what we are is energy. Tiny particles moving around an atom. We can pick up someone’s energy from a distance. It is a coherent set of waves of every organism that we are sinking into and assessing. When we feel changes in a room when people are arguing, that is feeling energy. To hold space for a client, it is the concept of the both and (many and), instead of the either or. It is like holding 3 things in your hands. You sense you are holding 3 objects, but you can focus on just one of those objects. You can learn to hold presence for yourself and for the patient at the same time. This holding of presence allows you to be open to the information the tissues want to give you and your client. To learn more about healing at a distance and holding space check out the advanced postpartum technique on-line course offered by the Institute for Birth Healing.  If you have any comments or questions about today’s episode I would love to hear from you. Message me on Instagram or Facebook, or Email Me. If you enjoyed today’s podcast and are interested in more topics to support your clinical practice and treating your clients, find us on your favorite podcast app and subscribe so you don’t miss an episode.  To learn more visit: InstituteforBirthHealing.comVisit Institute for Birth Healing to learn more about how to care for the pregnant and postpartum body: CLICK HERE