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Aug 13, 2025 54 min

Holding the ‘Old Me’ Hostage

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Episode 086: “Holding the ‘Old Me’ Hostage” We’ve all done it — holding on to the old “version” of someone we know… or of ourselves. Maybe it’s your cousin who you still picture as the awkward teen, or the way you define yourself by that job you left 10 years ago. In this episode, JDK and Ashley explain why our brains are wired to cling to outdated stories about people (including ourselves), how this habit creates unnecessary emotional friction, and why learning to allow for change can transform relationships, boost self-esteem, and help us enjoy life more in the moment. With a mix of science, real-life examples, and a few laughs, you’ll learn how to hit “refresh” on your mental snapshots and embrace the ever-updating nature of being human. Also, be sure to check out and subscribe to the new Staying Power YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@StayingPower-TSPN [email protected] The Staying Power Network | For a Better Life | Patreon Facebook Staying Power on Instagram Words by JDK

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