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EPISODE · Apr 27, 2026 · 16 MIN

Holding the Space Without Taking On The Baggage {Ep 224}

from Tuesday Talks with Darleen · host Darleen Redman

Send us Fan MailIf you’ve ever finished a client session and felt like you’re carrying someone else’s anxiety in your chest, their stress in your shoulders, or their problems in your head, we made this conversation for you. I’m talking about the skill that separates sustainable coaches from burned-out helpers. Holding space with strong emotional boundaries, so you can stay kind, present, and clear without absorbing a client’s baggage.I get practical and a little blunt. I break down how I tune in with permission, feel what a client feels, and still leave it with them when the call ends. I talk about why “fixing” people is a trap, why no one is broken, and how real growth comes from awareness not from rescuing. I also go hard on active listening, because being truly heard is rare, and it changes everything about trust, safety, and the quality of your coaching, mentoring, or counselling.We also tackle the sneaky pressure that drains you. Believing you’re responsible for the outcome. Clients choose their pace, their actions, and what they do between sessions. I share how to stay grounded when someone is upset or angry, how to separate your self-worth from their mood, and why tools like journaling can land after the session even if it doesn’t feel like a “breakthrough” in the moment.If you want to be the person who holds a safe space without losing yourself, listen through and take what you need. Subscribe, share this with a coach-friend, and leave a review so more people learn how to serve without burning out. Support the showHello and Welcome to The Aligned Path with DarleenMy name is Darleen and I support business women to have a Heartfelt Connection to their Business through working with their intuition.You love your business as it has all started coming together and now you understand that Mindset, Spirituality and Intuition are just as important as the logical parts of business. When you work with your intuition in business you can make sound business decisions that you have confidence in; become more confident in yourself as a business woman; and have the ability to say no to things and people that are not aligned.NEXT STEPS ➡️Say hi on Instagram or Facebook at "The Aligned Path with Darleen" and share your favourite takeaway from this episode on your stories. Be sure to tag @thealigendpathwithdarleen for a chance to win a free 30 min coaching call with me!🩷Loving this show? 🩷 Hit subscribe/follow so you don't miss out on more amazing episodes  🩷 Leave a review on your favourite podcast platform so that more women like you can enjoy🩷 Did you know that can subscribe to this podcast for bonus episodes where I talk raw and real about my business journey and with completing Visual Art courses. Subscribe here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2568417/supporters/new 🩷I would love to know what your insights/aha's you had from this episode. Please head on over to my FREE...

Send us Fan Mail If you’ve ever finished a client session and felt like you’re carrying someone else’s anxiety in your chest, their stress in your shoulders, or their problems in your head, we made this conversation for you. I’m talking about the skill that separates sustainable coaches from burned-out helpers. Holding space with strong emotional boundaries, so you can stay kind, present, and clear without absorbing a client’s baggage. I get practical and a little blunt. I break down how I t...

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