Holiday Family Drama: Why You're Probably the Problem

In this heartfelt episode of Wisdom for the Wilderness, Pastors Zack and Josh tackle the often-thorny reality of spending holidays with extended family. Drawing from personal stories—like Thanksgiving mishaps, in-law dynamics, and encounters with "that" opinionated relative—they explore why many family conflicts stem from our own expectations and fragility rather than outright toxicity.With humor and biblical insight, they offer practical advice: adjust your expectations for real (dysfunctional) families, choose battles wisely, avoid unnecessary debates on politics or hot-button issues, protect your spouse and kids, and focus on loving others unconditionally—even when you disagree. They emphasize treasuring fleeting moments with loved ones, being a faithful witness for Christ without forcing confrontations, and finding common ground over games, food, and celebration.Perfect for college students heading home, newlyweds navigating in-laws, or anyone dreading (or looking forward to) family gatherings this Christmas season. A timely reminder to speak truth in love, let some things go, and celebrate the birth of Jesus amid the chaos.