Honest Love, New Rules

Send us Fan MailWhat if love doesn’t end when the relationship does? We sit down with coach Emma Galland for a candid, unfiltered journey through desire mismatch, asexuality, and the courage it takes to tell the truth even when it breaks the old container. Emma shares why her marriage ended without bitterness, how she and her ex kept a profound bond, and why radical honesty protects love while betrayal destroys it. We unpack jealousy, ego, and the myth of ownership—shifting from “you belong to me” to “we each belong to ourselves.” Along the way we explore monogamy as a cultural choice, not a biological default, and what it means to design a relationship that actually fits who you are.If you’ve ever struggled to talk about sex, Emma’s tools will change your script. Learn the “couple bubble,” a structured space where partners speak without interruption, and discover how to normalize sexual check-ins so fantasies don’t feel like landmines. We also get practical about libido: the big depressors (alcohol, smoking, certain drugs), why circulation is everything, and how leafy greens and nitric oxide support arousal for all genders. From tantra and sacred intention to voyeurism, nudity, and boundaries, this conversation blends anthropology, health, and real-life coaching into a toolkit you can use tonight.Expect clear language, zero shame, and actionable steps: ask what felt good, separate fantasy from action, question conditioning, and choose integrity over secrecy. Whether you’re happily monogamous or curious about ethical nonmonogamy, these insights help you build trust, deepen intimacy, and stay true to yourself. If the episode moves you, tap follow, share with a friend who needs it, and drop a review telling us the one honest conversation you’re ready to have.Subscribe to our YouTube Channel: The SHITTS Podcast. Follow us on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and iHeart Radio. Subscribe and comment.