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EPISODE · Dec 12, 2025 · 12 MIN

How a Poet Helped Me Face What I Feared

from The Death Readiness Podcast: Not your dad’s estate planning podcast · host Jill Mastroianni

What You’ll Learn in This EpisodeWhat Andrea Gibson’s “biggest tiniest dreams” teach us about presence, attention, and finding meaning in ordinary moments.How a poet can name experiences we didn't realize we were carrying, from nervous parental love to loving complicated rescue animals.Why agency rarely looks dramatic and how a simple phone call can be an act of courage.What it means to create a life with “stretch marks on your heart,” and how that frames the work of death readiness.Why noticing small joys matters, whether it’s a dog in a tiny t-shirt or kindness you weren’t expecting.How estate planning and poetry unexpectedly intersect, both reminding us that life is finite and luminous at the same time.Resources & LinksCome See Me in the Good Light — Documentary about poet Andrea Gibson (Apple TV).Things That Don’t Suck — Andrea Gibson’s Substack newsletter.Connect with Jill:Website: DeathReadiness.comEmail: [email protected] more about Jill’s solutionsSubscribe to the Death Readiness Dispatch!Submit a question for Tuesday TriageDid you enjoy this episode? Share it with someone you care about. This podcast provides estate planning guidance for women and discusses real, practical issues, from caregiving, pre-planning a funeral, how to avoid probate using beneficiary designations, planning for individuals with special needs (and special needs trusts), whether you need a professional fiduciary (trustee or executor), how the estate tax works and how to preserve your legacy. Tuesday Triage episodes answer questions from listeners like you, from powers of attorney, healthcare advance directives (and whether they work when you’re pregnant), what a Last Will and Testament really is, whether you need a trust, how Medicaid works and how to have senior and elder care conversations and how to care for aging parents. Disclaimer: This podcast and all related content are for educational purposes only and do not constitute legal advice. No attorney-client relationship is established here. Use of this information without careful analysis and review by your attorney, CPA, and/or financial advisor may cause serious adverse consequences. For legal guidance tailored to your unique situation, consult with a licensed attorney in your state. 

Jill shares how a documentary about poet Andrea Gibson collided with her own avoided medical uncertainty — and why the smallest acts of agency often matter more than the big, dramatic gestures we imagine. Through Andrea’s “biggest tiniest dreams,” parental nervous love, three sweater-wearing rescue dogs, and a long-overdue doctor’s appointment, this episode explores what it means to stay awake to your own life, even when it feels overwhelming. It’s about fear, tenderness, and the luminous beauty tucked inside ordinary days.

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What You’ll Learn in This EpisodeWhat Andrea Gibson’s “biggest tiniest dreams” teach us about presence, attention, and finding meaning in ordinary moments.How a poet can name experiences we didn't realize we were carrying, from nervous parental love...

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