How an ASD Diagnosis Began to Transform Their 24 Year Marriage

Alina and her husband have been married for 24 years and have 5 sons. Throughout their marriage, they have experienced lots of challenges that other couples weren't having.  However, it wasn't until her husband was diagnosed, earlier this year, with Autism Spectrum Disorder, that those challenges began to make sense.  When Alina found the "Neurodiverse Love" podcast she realized she was not alone and her thinking and the way she communicated with her husband began to change.  Alina shares openly and honestly about the journey she is on to understand how to thrive in her marriage.  During the past few months, she has asked her husband for forgiveness for the way she has communicated with him and has learned healthier ways to communicate.  She is beginning to understand the ways in which their brains are wired differently and she and her husband are working together to make their marriage thrive.  Understanding why there had been so many arguments, misunderstandings and misinterpretations, and finding ways to appreciate and value each other again, has begun to transform Alina's marriage.  She feels tremendous hope for the future and is excited to spend the rest of her life with her very kind husband.  Whether you are the autistic partner or the allistic partner, you will find some hope, clarity and understanding in this episode.  When we know better, we can "choose" to do better and Alina is proof of that! If you would like to find more resources about neurodiverse relationships, check out our website at: neurodiverselove.com You can also follow us on Instagram @neurodiverse_love If you would like to join one of our free "Neurodiverse Love" peer support groups you can get more information by sending an email to: [email protected] or send a DM on Instagram. If you would like to be a guest on the "Neurodiverse Love" podcast and you are in a neurodiverse relationship and would like to share your story, or if you are a counselor, therapist or coach who works with neurodiverse couples, please send us an email or a DM on Instagram. Thank you for being a part of the international "Neurodiverse Love" journey:-)