How Can I Forgive Someone Who Has Hurt Me?

from Cindy Grasso Podcast · host Cindy Grasso

How do you forgive someone who keeps hurting you? What about someone who has abused you? And can a Christian who continues to harm others truly be following Christ? In this episode, Pastor Cindy Grasso tackles these challenging questions with biblical wisdom and practical insights. She discusses what true forgiveness looks like, how to set healthy boundaries, and why forgiveness doesn’t always mean reconciliation. Drawing from Scripture and recommended books like Keep Your Love On by Danny Silk and The Wounded Heart by Dan Allender, she provides encouragement for those on the journey of healing and freedom.

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Pastor Cindy Grasso answers tough questions on forgiveness, abuse, and whether Christians who harm others are truly following Christ. She explains that forgiveness is a journey, not a one-time event, and shares three key truths: you can’t heal the one who hurt you, you can’t set boundaries for others—only yourself, and forgiveness doesn’t equal trust. Through Scripture and recommended reading, she provides guidance on how to walk in freedom, healing, and healthy relationships.