How can we safely explore BDSM? – Coaching session with Caitlin & Chris

Caitlin returns for a follow-up coaching session with her partner, Chris. They check in with Leah about their BDSM explorations, dom/sub dynamics, communication in and out of play sessions, aftercare, safe words, bruising, pleasure, and sourcing and trying new ideas. Caitlin and Chris catch Leah up on the new-to-them BDSM they've been exploring and what they'd like support with. They get into specifics with impact tools, paddles, riding crop, switch, etc. Chris explains how he manages and escalates the impact using a 1-10 scale and timing set to playdate playlist. Leah talks about safe-wording to help Caitlin really get into sub space and also to give Chris reassurance. The line rests in the hands of the sub. Leah also talks about non-verbal safe cues. Chris shares his progress since the start of their sexual partnership. Pleasure dynamics for the dom, and physically dominating vs verbally dominating. Chris has an easier time with one over the other and is naturally a giver, so Leah helps him find new some avenues and techniques. Making a restaurant-style command or activity menu ahead of time can help. Leah shares a few tips. Navigating voyeurism/exhibitionism, consent, and safe places to engage. The Yes/No/Maybe list is great for finding and knowing your hard red lines. It's also a good idea to revisit the list periodically. Leah shares other resources and talks about BDSM tasting events. Chris talks about finding and pushing the limits as a dom while still being careful not to hurt her. Each play session is separate and discrete; always check in fresh. Is pushing BDSM limits healthy? If you're having consensual fun, carry on.    Resources mentioned:  Three Minute Game Yes / No / Maybe list Literotica   Update:  Since this episode was released, the podcast has concluded. Here's how you can find me now: Book a FREE no-pressure intro consultation Keep up to date and get your FREE Three-Minute Game All my classes and downloads are at my store Any audio extras for this episode on the Good Girls Talk About Sex website Here's everything I'm up to today I no longer use Patreon — you can now support my work on Substack   EPISODE CREDITS: Host / Producer – Leah Carey (email) Audio Editor – Gretchen Kilby Administrative Support - Lara O'Connor, Maria Franco Transcript creation – Jan Acielo Music – Nazar Rybak