EPISODE · Dec 16, 2024 · 39 MIN
How Celibate Dating Attracts Your Person
from Whimsy World · host Elle Beecher and Cameron Hogan
Cam and Elle dive deep into something that transformed our approach to relationships: celibate dating.We know this might sound old-school, but this is not about restriction (or religion of any kind) - it's about creating space to truly know someone's heart and mind without physical intimacy clouding your judgment. When you remove that element, you start noticing things you might have missed before: their energy, their values, how they handle stress, whether they truly respect your boundaries.We found that celibate dating helped us:- Focus on emotional connection first- Avoid the oxytocin "love" bond that sometimes makes us overlook red flags- Develop stronger communication skills- Really understand what we want in a partner and if the person we were dating had these qualitiesAnd on top of that... after we made that commitment to ourselves, we met each other in a yoga studio! Thank you for listening. Feel free to DM us, we love hearing what resonated with you and may even feature your question or situation in an upcoming Q&A episode. 👀Connect with us:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/listenbeforelove ✨ Listen Before Love youtube: youtube.com/@ellebeecher✨ Elle’s twitter: https://x.com/ellebeecher ✨ Cam’s twitter: https://x.com/thecameronhogan ✨ Connect with Elle: https://stan.store/ellebeecher ✨ Connect with Cam: https://stan.store/thecameronhogan ✨ Join our daily gratitude call to embrace “feel good” emotions: https://www.theboardwalks.com/great-morningWho are these people? 👀Cameron Hogan is an intuitive healer who’s coached dozens of high-performers to shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. Cameron also writes (he published 100 newsletters in 100 days!), hosts men’s circles and retreats for men, plays NBA2K, speaks at conferences, and hosts a daily gratitude call alongside Elle called Great Morning. Elle Beecher helps people build confidence and attract love. Elle coaches amazing people, writes every day, hosts a weekly walk for meaningful conversations in Austin (125 so far), drinks Diet Coke, hosts a daily gratitude call alongside Cam (90 so far), speaks at fun conferences, and consults companies on culture and community building. Elle worked at Meta for 7 years and was named Forbes 30 Under 30 for her work with The Board Walks. CHAPTERS:0:00 Welcome Back & Where This Topic Came From1:38 Why Did Cam Celibate Date?9:38 Cam's Lowest Point & "I'm Ready For My Wife"14:03 A Curveball After Cam and Elle Met20:58 Signing A Contract With The Universe23:13 Casual Sex Is A Myth26:38 Dating For Love vs Dating For Pleasure28:38 Making Your Soulmate Checklist33:02 Delusion Checker35:38 Clarifying The Signal37:28 Thank You & Please Support Us!38:36 Outro & More From Us
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Cam and Elle dive deep into something that transformed our approach to relationships: celibate dating.We know this might sound old-school, but this is not about restriction (or religion of any kind) - it's about creating space to truly know someone's heart and mind without physical intimacy clouding your judgment. When you remove that element, you start noticing things you might have missed before: their energy, their values, how they handle stress, whether they truly respect your boundaries.We found that celibate dating helped us:- Focus on emotional connection first- Avoid the oxytocin "love" bond that sometimes makes us overlook red flags- Develop stronger communication skills- Really understand what we want in a partner and if the person we were dating had these qualitiesAnd on top of that... after we made that commitment to ourselves, we met each other in a yoga studio! Thank you for listening. Feel free to DM us, we love hearing what resonated with you and may even feature your question or situation in an upcoming Q&A episode. 👀Connect with us:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/listenbeforelove ✨ Listen Before Love youtube: youtube.com/@ellebeecher✨ Elle’s twitter: https://x.com/ellebeecher ✨ Cam’s twitter: https://x.com/thecameronhogan ✨ Connect with Elle: https://stan.store/ellebeecher ✨ Connect with Cam: https://stan.store/thecameronhogan ✨ Join our daily gratitude call to embrace “feel good” emotions: https://www.theboardwalks.com/great-morningWho are these people? 👀Cameron Hogan is an intuitive healer who’s coached dozens of high-performers to shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. Cameron also writes (he published 100 newsletters in 100 days!), hosts men’s circles and retreats for men, plays NBA2K, speaks at conferences, and hosts a daily gratitude call alongside Elle called Great Morning. Elle Beecher helps people build confidence and attract love. Elle coaches amazing people, writes every day, hosts a weekly walk for meaningful conversations in Austin (125 so far), drinks Diet Coke, hosts a daily gratitude call alongside Cam (90 so far), speaks at fun conferences, and consults companies on culture and community building. Elle worked at Meta for 7 years and was named Forbes 30 Under 30 for her work with The Board Walks. CHAPTERS:0:00 Welcome Back & Where This Topic Came From1:38 Why Did Cam Celibate Date?9:38 Cam's Lowest Point & "I'm Ready For My Wife"14:03 A Curveball After Cam and Elle Met20:58 Signing A Contract With The Universe23:13 Casual Sex Is A Myth26:38 Dating For Love vs Dating For Pleasure28:38 Making Your Soulmate Checklist33:02 Delusion Checker35:38 Clarifying The Signal37:28 Thank You & Please Support Us!38:36 Outro & More From Us
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