How Do I Build Healthy Relationships? (Part 1) | Adulting 101: A Biblical Guide to Life and Faith

Session 4 — God designed us for relationship.I. Introduction — Created for ConnectionGod designed us for relationships - first with Him, then with others.Even in Eden, isolation was “not good.”Jesus modeled balanced relationships: deep friendships, compassion for outsiders, and time alone with the Father.Relational maturity is part of spiritual maturity.Reflect: Why are relationships central to spiritual growth? What happens when they replace our identity in Christ?II. Friendship — Building a Foundation of FaithScriptures: Proverbs 13:20; Ecclesiastes 4:9–12; John 15:13–15Godly friendships shape our faith and character.The Example of Jesus — Jesus defined friendship through sacrificial love (John 15:13). Walk with the Wise — Who you walk with determines where you end up (Prov 13:20). Strength in Numbers — Two are better than one (Ecc 4:9–12).Modern Loneliness — We’re hyper-connected yet disconnected.The Principle of Agreement — (Amos 3:3).Application:Choose friends who help you love Jesus more.Be the kind of friend you want to have.Watch for red flags (gossip, jealousy, manipulation).Walk in faith and honesty together.Reflect: How can you tell if a friendship is helping or hindering your walk with Christ?III. Dating — Pursuing Wisdom & HolinessScriptures: 1 Cor 6:18–20; 1 Thess 4:3–5Dating isn’t just romantic; it’s spiritual formation.The Bible doesn’t describe modern dating, but its wisdom applies.The goal isn’t just to find “the one,” but to become someone who honors God in every stage.Believers shouldn’t be unequally yoked (2 Cor 6:14).Keep God first and pursue purity (Matt 10:37; 1 Cor 6:18).Dating is preparation for covenant, not entertainment (Gen 2:24).Application:Pursue wisdom through Scripture and prayer.Prioritize character over chemistry.Stay rooted in community - accountability protects purity.Establish healthy boundaries based on trust and self-control.Reflect: How can you reflect Christ’s love in dating relationships?