How I Fell for a Narcissist When I Was Most Vulnerable| Epi 120 episode artwork

EPISODE · Jan 14, 2026 · 32 MIN

How I Fell for a Narcissist When I Was Most Vulnerable| Epi 120

from The Narcissism Decoder · host Dr. Anthony Mazzella

In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Kerry McAvoy—clinician, author, and survivor of a deeply deceptive narcissistic relationship. She takes us inside the psychological pull that kept her bonded to someone who mirrored her idealized longings while exploiting her vulnerabilities.We explore how her early upbringing shaped her ability to overlook red flags and why vulnerability after a profound loss can open the door to predatory narcissistic partners. If you’ve ever wondered how someone ends up in a relationship like this—or why it becomes so difficult to leave—this episode is a must-listen.If you are interested in a consultation or seeking virtual therapy services, Dr. Mazzella is accepting new patients. Please click here for more detailed information.  Want to go deeper? Join me in Office Hours — an open space where we explore psychoanalytic ideas together, answer your questions, and connect theory to real life experiences. Reserve your spot here  Next Meeting: Stay Tuned!  Contact me Directly with observations, questions or comments:  [email protected] You can follow The Narcissism Decoder on: https://www.instagram.com/thenarcissism.decoder/ https://www.tiktok.com/@thenarcissismdecoder https://www.youtube.com/@thenarcissismdecoder  Dr. Mazzella’s personal website: drmazzella.comDr. Anthony Mazzella is a psychoanalyst and psychodynamic psychotherapist specializing in narcissism, personality disorders, and relational dynamics.

In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Kerry McAvoy—clinician, author, and survivor of a deeply deceptive narcissistic relationship. She takes us inside the psychological pull that kept her bonded to someone who mirrored her idealized longings while exploiting her vulnerabilities. We explore how her early upbringing shaped her ability to overlook red flags and why vulnerability after a profound loss can open the door to predatory narcissistic partners. If you’ve ever wondered how someone ...

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