How i forgive.

FORGIVENESS DOESN'T EXCUSE THEIR BEHAVIOR. FORGIVENESS PREVENTS THEIR BEHAVIOR FROM DESTROYING YOUR HEART. 2 things make Forgiveness hard. The kind of people that hurt you and the kind of memory you have (long-term memory saves all the painful details). People often listen to respond to you, but never listen to understand you, so it'll be difficult to get their apology or grant you forgiveness. After you apologize, their preceeding judgment is BEYOND you. Don't sweat it.