How I Met my Catholic Wife at 21 (Stop chasing girls)

Check out my previous videos on relationships and preparation for marriage linked below.Why Modern Relationships Fail (And Marriage Endures): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=26JxoNxFd1E&list=PLNiMDAMs3mP4hu5KJE9rnUm7h7kLLOVPk&index=28&t=1sYou Want a Queen? Build a Kingdom First: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LcLgHpKXraw&list=PLNiMDAMs3mP4hu5KJE9rnUm7h7kLLOVPk&index=27This video was highly requested. I’ve spoken before about marriage and relationships, but here I go deeper into how a man should actually approach finding a wife, without losing his mission, discipline, or peace of heart. Too many men hyper-fixate on women and relationships, and in doing so undermine the very qualities required to become a good husband and father. A woman is not your mission. She supports it.In this video, I break down what actually worked for me, how I met my wife at 21, and why chasing relationships too early or from the wrong mindset almost always backfires.In this video I cover:-why a woman cannot be your mission as a man-the difference between living for marriage vs chasing girls-how validation-seeking ruins dating and discernment-what “stability” actually looks like before dating-where you’re likely (and unlikely) to meet a future wife-how discipline, prayer, and purpose attract the right woman-why peace of heart matters more than dating strategiesThis isn’t dating advice for attention or entertainment. It’s about order, maturity, and becoming the kind of man worthy of marriage. Trust the process. Do the inputs properly. Let God handle the timing.My work: https://linktr.ee/tomas.monesFit for the Kingdom:https://fitforthekingdom.com.au/#catholic #relationships #marriage #masculinity #faith #dating