How I Stopped Chasing and Started Attracting

Welcome to the very first episode of The S.O.F.T. Method™ Podcast! Formerly known as Creative on the Grind, this podcast has officially stepped into its next evolution. Hosted by DeAndra Jalisa, multi-passionate entrepreneur, business coach, and soft life curator, this space is where self-worth meets overflow—and feminine becomes your strategy. In today’s episode, DeAndra shares the powerful story behind her personal and professional shift: from chasing success, love, and validation... to attracting everything she desired by simply becoming. This is your permission slip to let go of pressure, embody your worth, and lean into a softer, more aligned way of living and creating. 💫 In this episode, DeAndra explores: Why over-functioning feels “normal” but leads to burnout The difference between chasing energy vs. attracting energy How childhood patterns can shape your relationships and business habits Her experience with overgiving in dating and entrepreneurship How she reframed rest, stillness, and self-worth in real-time What it really means to “attract what you are” Three signs you're chasing instead of becoming How to embody the woman you see in your vision—and trust it’s already yours 🔥 Key Takeaway: “You don’t attract what you want—you attract what you are.” When you stop proving, pushing, and over-functioning, you create space to receive the things that are already aligned with your becoming. 🧘🏽‍♀️ Journal Prompt: Where in my life am I still chasing instead of becoming? ✨ Free Gift: Ready to soften your way forward? Download The Soft Start—a free 7-day guide to clarity, alignment, and emotional embodiment. 👉 Grab it here 💌 Let’s Stay Connected: Subscribe to my weekly newsletter for soft structure, soulful strategy, and aligned business advice: 📬 deandrajalisa.com/subscribe Tag me on IG or share your reflection from this episode—I'd love to connect with you! 🖤 @deandrajalisa and @thesoftmethodco