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EPISODE · Jun 12, 2026 · 26 MIN

How I Stopped Looking Outside Myself For Love 💖

from Your Soul Called · host Nicole Salmoiraghi

🎙 Episode 4: How I Stopped Looking Outside Myself For Love 💖For most of my life, I looked outside of myself for love.I wanted someone to tell me I was doing a good job.To tell me I was enough.To tell me I was worthy of being proud of.And when I didn't get that validation, I carried the same harsh voice inside my own head. The voice that judged, criticized, doubted, and made me feel like I needed to earn love instead of simply receiving it.The truth is, most of us were never taught how to process our emotions. We learned that some feelings were "good" and others were "bad." We learned to suppress sadness, avoid anger, numb fear, and hide disappointment.But emotions aren't who we are.They are energy moving through us. They are part of the human experience. And just as we can't have joy without sadness, we can't experience love without loss, hope without doubt, or peace without uncertainty.In this episode, I share one of the most life-changing lessons I've learned through healing, coaching, and personal growth: how to stop running from difficult emotions and start caring for them instead.We talk about:✨ Why so many of us search for love and validation outside ourselves✨ How childhood experiences shape our relationship with emotions✨ Why there are no "bad" emotions✨ The role our nervous system plays in emotional healing✨ How to care for difficult feelings instead of suppressing them✨ The connection between emotional processing and self-love✨ Why learning to love all parts of yourself changes everythingThis conversation is an invitation to stop fighting your emotions, stop judging yourself for having them, and start giving yourself the love you've been searching for all along.—Meet Nicole ✨ intuitive guide, energetic healer, multi 6 figure entrepreneur, and mom of 3 boys This podcast is for women who do it all but feel overwhelmed, emotionally depleted, disconnected from themselves, and who are craving something more. Through conversations on intuition, energy, healing, self-worth, motherhood, and entrepreneurship, Nicole shares simple advice to help create a life that feels deeply aligned from the inside out.👉  https://nicolesalmoiraghi.com/Follow Nicole on Instagram!

🎙 Episode 4: How I Stopped Looking Outside Myself For Love 💖For most of my life, I looked outside of myself for love.I wanted someone to tell me I was doing a good job.To tell me I was enough.To tell me I was worthy of being proud of.And when I didn't get that validation, I carried the same harsh voice inside my own head. The voice that judged, criticized, doubted, and made me feel like I needed to earn love instead of simply receiving it.The truth is, most of us were never taught how to process our emotions. We learned that some feelings were "good" and others were "bad." We learned to suppress sadness, avoid anger, numb fear, and hide disappointment.But emotions aren't who we are.They are energy moving through us. They are part of the human experience. And just as we can't have joy without sadness, we can't experience love without loss, hope without doubt, or peace without uncertainty.In this episode, I share one of the most life-changing lessons I've learned through healing, coaching, and personal growth: how to stop running from difficult emotions and start caring for them instead.We talk about:✨ Why so many of us search for love and validation outside ourselves✨ How childhood experiences shape our relationship with emotions✨ Why there are no "bad" emotions✨ The role our nervous system plays in emotional healing✨ How to care for difficult feelings instead of suppressing them✨ The connection between emotional processing and self-love✨ Why learning to love all parts of yourself changes everythingThis conversation is an invitation to stop fighting your emotions, stop judging yourself for having them, and start giving yourself the love you've been searching for all along.—Meet Nicole ✨ intuitive guide, energetic healer, multi 6 figure entrepreneur, and mom of 3 boys This podcast is for women who do it all but feel overwhelmed, emotionally depleted, disconnected from themselves, and who are craving something more. Through conversations on intuition, energy, healing, self-worth, motherhood, and entrepreneurship, Nicole shares simple advice to help create a life that feels deeply aligned from the inside out.👉  https://nicolesalmoiraghi.com/Follow Nicole on Instagram!

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