How is the "ambition paradox" impacting your friendships? -- A conversation with Dr. Anne Welsh, author or Ambitious Mother

How motherhood changes your closest friendships, with Dr. Anne WelshYou're crushing it at work, you're showing up for your kids, and you're trying… really trying… to also be a good friend. But the pursuit of excelling in all three keeps leaving you depleted and falling short across the board. And that picture of the village you keep seeing everywhere? The tight-knit crew of women who are all magically available and deeply connected? It might be setting you up to discount the support you already have.In this episode, Danielle sits down with clinical psychologist and executive coach Dr. Anne Welsh, author of the forthcoming book Ambitious Mother, to talk about what happens when ambition, motherhood, and friendship all compete for the same woman's energy. They dig into the difference between healthy and unhealthy striving, why ambition works better as a web than a ladder, what most women get wrong about the village, and how to maintain friendships with child-free women when everyone feels underwater. Dr. Anne also shares what she sees ambitious women ignoring that costs them the most: their own wants.🎧 BUT WAIT… THERE'S MORE.Members of Office Hours get supplementary material with every episode to deepen their friendships. Join anytime (and get your first two weeks free) at: https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/office-hours.TOPICS IN THIS EPISODE:The difference between healthy and unhealthy striving, and which one your ambition is actually fuelingWhy thinking of ambition as a ladder is keeping you stuckThe ambition paradox that leaves working mothers depleted no matter how hard they tryWhat most women get wrong about the village (and the connections they're discounting)Why your friendships outside of motherhood might matter more than the ones inside itHow to bridge the gap with child-free friends when everyone feels underwaterNYC EVENT 8/27: Danielle Bayard Jackson and Dr. Anne Welsh with be talking about Ambitious Motherhood (and friendship!) at 5pm at the Veronica Beard on Madison Avenue. Want to attend? Email [email protected] to RSVP.---------------------------------------------ABOUT DR. ANNE WELSHDr. Anne Welsh is a clinical psychologist, executive coach, and mother of four. She's the author of Ambitious Mother: From Surviving to Thriving in Your Career and at Home, and her work centers on helping ambitious women shift from overwhelm and perfectionism to healthy striving, without giving up what they actually want.CONNECT WITH DR. ANNE:Book, Ambitious Mother: https://www.drannewelsh.com/ambitious-mother-bookWebsite: https://www.drannewelsh.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/drannewelsh/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drannewelsh/📚 EPISODE RESOURCES & REFERENCES:Dr. Anne Welsh, Ambitious Mother: From Surviving to Thriving in Your Career and at Home: https://www.drannewelsh.com/ambitious-mother-book🎙️ GET FEATURED ON THE PODCASTHave a friendship question, hot take, or personal story you want featured? Send a voice note via Instagram DMs @friendforward or email a voice note or video to [email protected] WITH DANIELLE BAYARD JACKSON:Join Office Hours for bonus content and community → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/office-hoursJoin the Friendship Elevated Fall 2026 Waitlist → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/friendship-elevated-waitlistCheck out more connection resources → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/resourcesBecome a certified relational health coach → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/relational-health-instituteFOLLOW DANIELLE BAYARD JACKSON:Get the book "Fighting for our Friendships" → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/bookFollow on Instagram → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/instagramFollow on TikTok → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/tiktokLearn more about Danielle → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/website🗣️ BOOK DANIELLE TO SPEAKLooking for a speaker on women's cooperation, communication, and conflict? Send your inquiry to [email protected]:00:00 — The pull of trying to be everything at once03:49 — Introducing Dr. Anne Welsh and Ambitious Mother05:35 — Healthy striving vs. unhealthy striving07:44 — Ambition as a web, not a ladder10:54 — The ambition paradox and spreading yourself thin13:22 — What we get wrong about the village and the value of weak ties16:14 — Why friendships outside motherhood still matter20:21 — Honesty, vulnerability, and reconnecting with your wants