How many people have you had sex with?

Leah has asked many of her interviewees how many sexual partners they've had. The answers, in their surprisingly wide variety, show that there is no "normal." This also opens up a discussion about what "counts" as sex. Your sexual desires don't always overlap with your romantic relationship preferences, and that's common and totally okay. Chorus of voices answering "How many people have you had sex with?" Leah gives her "number" and discusses what "sex" means. "Am I Normal?" This week's caller asks if being attracted to women means her heterosexual marriage is over. When *not* to ask your husband for a threesome. Our sexual desires and our relationship styles don't always match up. Podcast recommendation: The Change Over by Alanna Sparrow Highlighted episode - White Privilege v. Black Punishment  Resources mentioned: Literotica is an online collection of user-submitted erotic fiction and fantasy. You can find stories of all types at https://www.literotica.com/stories/.  For stories specifically about lesbian sex, go to https://www.literotica.com/c/lesbian-sex-stories.  You can search for any other topic that might be of interest at https://tags.literotica.com/.  Please be aware that many pages will have sexy pictures and/or ads for porn sites.  You do not need to click on any of these to use the site. Feminist porn – Watching explicit sexual acts can help you understand what turns you on, however most of the available porn is focused on male satisfaction and neglects the woman's pleasure. Feminist porn directors create explicit material in a way that's not objectifying or degrading to women. The following are a selection of directors and websites. PLEASE PAY FOR YOUR PORN! Erika Lust is one of the most well-known feminist porn creators. pinklabel.tv brightdesire.com AbbyWinters.com CrashPadSeries.com   Update:  Since this episode was released, the podcast has concluded. Here's how you can find me now: Book a FREE no-pressure intro consultation Keep up to date and get your FREE Three-Minute Game All my classes and downloads are at my store Any audio extras for this episode on the Good Girls Talk About Sex website Here's everything I'm up to today I no longer use Patreon — you can now support my work on Substack   EPISODE CREDITS: Host / Producer – Leah Carey (email) Audio Editor – Gretchen Kilby Administrative Support - Lara O'Connor, Maria Franco Transcript creation – Jan Acielo Music – Nazar Rybak