How Much Should You Actually Save Before Having a Baby? And Balancing Travel Dreams Vs Buying a Home

Ever feel like your money goals are at war with your life goals? Like one minute you’re saving for a house… and the next you’re convincing yourself a Euro summer is “an investment in personal growth”? This week’s DM came from someone stuck right there... her partner’s all-in on buying a home, while she’s eyeing flights. And honestly? We get it. Because trying to choose between living life and getting ahead feels like an impossible math problem. So we’re unpacking whether travel really sets you back… or if it’s just a different kind of wealth that doesn’t show up in your net worth. Victoria's breaking down how to make those big-money decisions (trips, weddings, babies, the whole lot) without losing sight of Future You, or resenting Current You for having fun. And speaking of big milestones… we’re also getting real about how to actually prep for parental leave. From test-driving life on one income to building a “sanity fund” that actually covers what you’ll really need, not just the boring stuff. Plus, it's Friday so there's all the money wins, broke tips and money goss you love.  Need the team’s take on your money dilemma? Send us a voicemail here.Or if it's more of a spicy money drama and you want the communities verdict? Slide into our DMs here.  Ready for more laughs, lessons, and unhinged money chats? Check out our oh-so-bingeable Friday Drinks playlist. Listen here. Join our 400K+ She's on the Money community in our Facebook Group and on Instagram.  Acknowledgement of Country By Nartarsha Bamblett aka Queen Acknowledgements. The advice shared on She's On The Money is general in nature and does not consider your individual circumstances. She's On The Money exists purely for educational purposes and should not be relied upon to make an investment or financial decision. If you do choose to buy a financial product, read the PDS, TMD and obtain appropriate financial advice tailored towards your needs.  Victoria Devine and She's On The Money are authorised representatives of Money Sherpa PTY LTD ABN - 321649 27708,  AFSL - 451289.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.