EPISODE · Aug 13, 2025 · 39 MIN
How Our Relationship Has Changed in 11 Years (and What It’s Really Like Being Married to a Projector)
from Return · host Caitlan Siegenthaler
Episode 87: How Our Relationship Has Changed in 11 Years (and What It’s Really Like Being Married to a Projector) Back by popular demand—my favorite Manifestor, love of my life, and father to our toddler tornado, Remo Siegenthaler ,returns for his third appearance on Return. Our past episodes together are some of the most downloaded, so clearly you like hearing from him… or maybe you just enjoy hearing us roast each other with love.In this episode, we get real about how our relationship has changed over the last 11 years, what it’s like being married to a Projector (spoiler: “exhausting” made the list), and how Human Design has shaped our understanding of each other. We talk communication, commitment, parenting a Generator as two non-sacrals, and why marriage didn’t mean much to him until it did.You’ll also hear his evolving take on Human Design, his advice for Manifestors who feel misunderstood, and the listener questions that had us both laughing.THANK YOU TO OUR EPISODE SPONSOR TAELOR:For 25% off your first order click this link & use the code: CAITLAN at checkout What You'll Learn in This Episode:How long-term relationships evolve (and why communication is still a work in progress)The pros and cons of being married to a Projector and a therapistHow Human Design shows up in our marriage and parentingWhy Remo shifted from “marriage doesn’t matter” to proposingParenting dynamics when your child has more energy than both parents combinedAdvice for Manifestors on finding the right audience for their truthChapters: 0:00 – Welcome back, Remo (+ a Taelor sponsorship shout-out) 2:20 – How our relationship has evolved over 11 years 6:40 – How we’ve each changed individually 12:10 – Human Design in our marriage 17:45 – The highs and lows of being married to a Projector 20:00 – The reality of being married to a therapist 21:50 – Advice for Manifestors feeling misunderstood 23:10 – Parenting a Generator as two non-sacrals 25:20 – Commitment, marriage, and what changed his mind 31:30 – Matching “mountains” environments in Human Design 33:50 – Listener questions: Vegas videos, favorite things about each other 40:50 – What we appreciate most about our partnership 42:50 – Closing thoughts & The Dip free session offerLinks & Resources:Sponsor: Taelor– Rent menswear with personal styling + AI recommendations. Get your discount here. use code: CAITLAN at checkoutEpisode with Anya Cheng, Taylor’s CEO – Listen hereBook your free 30-min Dip session after leaving a podcast review – Details hereFollow me on Instagram: @caitlansiegenthalerSupport the showProduced by Caitlan SiegenthalerCover Art by Kiara OparaIf you enjoyed this episode, share it with a friend, post it to your Instagram stories, and tag me. And if you really loved it, the best thank-you is a written review on Apple Podcasts or a comment on Spotify. That is a beautiful energetic exchange for Caitlan creating the show.
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Episode 87: How Our Relationship Has Changed in 11 Years (and What It’s Really Like Being Married to a Projector) Back by popular demand—my favorite Manifestor, love of my life, and father to our toddler tornado, Remo Siegenthaler ,returns for his third appearance on Return. Our past episodes together are some of the most downloaded, so clearly you like hearing from him… or maybe you just enjoy hearing us roast each other with love. In this episode, we get real about how our relationshi...
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