EPISODE · Jun 9, 2022 · 34 MIN
How the Avoidantly Attached Sabotage Their Relationships
from Create Love Create Freedom · host Allison Fischer
In this episode we discuss Avoidant Attachment, how avoidant attachment occurs in childhood, the limiting beliefs that lead to sabotaging intimate relationships, and how the sabotage can present itself to the avoidant's partner. Avoidantly attached individuals sabotage their relationships not out of malice—but out of fear. Their core wound is the fear of engulfment, loss of autonomy, and the vulnerability required for true intimacy. Deep down, avoidants want love and connection, but they’ve learned that closeness is unsafe, overwhelming, or threatening to their independence. So, they protect themselves by pushing others away—often without realizing it. Welcome to Create Love Freedom — A living temple for women reclaiming their feminine essence, healing old wounds, and rising sovereign Explore the Temple:Website & Pinterest — Wisdom, rituals, and inspiration to support your journeyFree Challenges — [Ignite Your Feminine 30-Day Challenge] + [Unleash Your Dark Feminine 14-Day Challenge] to begin your initiationFeminine Reclaiming Quiz — Discover what holds you back from embodying your Divine Feminine Step Deeper Into the Temple:The Crown Gate — A 3-Day Ritual of Remembering & Reclaiming the FeminineThe Temple Gate — A 3-Day Ritual of Self-Healing & SovereigntyThe Feminine Reclaiming Course — Your rites of passage into sovereigntyThe School of Self-Transformation...
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In this episode we discuss Avoidant Attachment, how avoidant attachment occurs in childhood, the limiting beliefs that lead to sabotaging intimate relationships, and how the sabotage can present itself to the avoidant's partner. Avoidantly attached individuals sabotage their relationships not out of malice—but out of fear. Their core wound is the fear of engulfment, loss of autonomy, and the vulnerability required for true intimacy. Deep down, avoidants want love and connection, but the...
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