EPISODE · Jun 3, 2026 · 7 MIN
How the Likeability Trap Silences Women in Leadership Roles
from Women at Work with Fexingo: Gender, Leadership, and Career Conversations for Women · host Fexingo
In this episode of Women at Work with Fexingo, Lucas and Luna explore why women in leadership roles face a likeability trap that often silences them. Drawing on a 2024 McKinsey study showing 46 percent of women leaders report their suggestions are overlooked in meetings, the hosts discuss a specific case: a VP of product at a midsize tech firm whose team repeatedly ignored her strategic recommendations until a male colleague echoed them and was praised. Lucas cites Heidi Roizen's 'double bind' theory and a 2020 Harvard Business Review experiment on female experts being rated less persuasive. Luna shares her own experience of being interrupted in a boardroom and how she eventually adjusted her communication style. The episode drills into how women navigate the tension between being seen as warm versus competent, and offers a concrete tactic - third-party validation - as a way to get ideas heard without triggering backlash. The conversation ends with a reflection on systemic change: moving from individual adaptation to organizational awareness of this bias. #LikeabilityTrap #WomenInLeadership #CareerAdvancement #WorkplaceBias #DoubleBind #Communication #WomenAtWork #FexingoBusiness #BusinessPodcast #Leadership #GenderEquality #McKinsey #HarvardBusinessReview #HeidiRoizen #PowerDynamics #EmployeeVoice #StrategyExecution #WomenLeaders Keep every episode free: buymeacoffee.com/fexingo
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In this episode of Women at Work with Fexingo, Lucas and Luna explore why women in leadership roles face a likeability trap that often silences them. Drawing on a 2024 McKinsey study showing 46 percent of women leaders report their suggestions are overlooked in meetings, the hosts discuss a specific case: a VP of product at a midsize tech firm whose team repeatedly ignored her strategic recommendations until a male colleague echoed them and was praised. Lucas cites Heidi Roizen's 'double bind' theory and a 2020 Harvard Business Review experiment on female experts being rated less persuasive. Luna shares her own experience of being interrupted in a boardroom and how she eventually adjusted her communication style. The episode drills into how women navigate the tension between being seen as warm versus competent, and offers a concrete tactic - third-party validation - as a way to get ideas heard without triggering backlash. The conversation ends with a reflection on systemic change: moving from individual adaptation to organizational awareness of this bias. #LikeabilityTrap #WomenInLeadership #CareerAdvancement #WorkplaceBias #DoubleBind #Communication #WomenAtWork #FexingoBusiness #BusinessPodcast #Leadership #GenderEquality #McKinsey #HarvardBusinessReview #HeidiRoizen #PowerDynamics #EmployeeVoice #StrategyExecution #WomenLeaders Keep every episode free: buymeacoffee.com/fexingo
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