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EPISODE · Feb 3, 2026 · 34 MIN

How to Address Performance Issues with Peter Vinge (Part 1)

from The Art and Science of Difficult Conversations · host Chris Wong & Lucie Tesarova

In this conversation, Chris Wong and Lucie Tesarova engage with HR consultant Peter Vinge to explore the complexities of performance conversations in leadership. They discuss the importance of clear communication, the distinction between kindness and niceness, and the necessity of addressing performance issues promptly. Vinge shares insights on how to prepare for feedback sessions, manage emotions, and navigate sensitive situations, including those involving protected classes. The discussion also covers the effective use of Performance Improvement Plans (PIPs) and the significance of building trust within teams. Takeaways Performance conversations can be approached without discomfort. Kindness creates clarity, while niceness avoids discomfort. Address performance issues immediately to maintain trust. Document patterns of behavior for effective feedback. Prepare data and facts before performance conversations. Emotions should be set aside during feedback discussions. Transparency builds trust in difficult conversations. PIPs should not be a surprise to employees. Clear expectations are essential for performance improvement. Empowering teams leads to better performance outcomes. About Peter Vinge Peter Vinge is the founder of TORBAY Consulting and a leadership advisor focused on helping leaders have clear, confident, and productive conversations. He works with executives and teams to strengthen accountability, alignment, and culture by addressing challenges head-on. www.TORBAYConsulting.com  https://www.linkedin.com/company/torbayconsulting  Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Performance Conversations01:53 The Journey into HR05:02 Understanding Performance Feedback08:01 Identifying Performance Issues11:00 The Importance of Documentation13:56 Preparing for Performance Feedback16:47 Managing Emotions in Feedback19:48 Navigating Sensitive Conversations23:09 The Role of Performance Improvement Plans (PIPs)30:41 Navigating Performance Improvement Plans (PIPs)34:51 Role-Playing Difficult Conversations34:52 Introduction to Performance Conversations   Connect with us: Email – [email protected] – https://www.myleadershippotential.com | www.linkedin.com/in/chriswonglmhc | download the Difficult Conversation Playbook for LeadersLucie – www.mindfittery.com | www.linkedin.com/in/lucietesarova and take the Saboteur Assessme  

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