How to Ask for a Reference When You Feel Like a Fraud

Lucas and Luna tackle the anxiety of asking for a job reference when imposter syndrome makes you feel unqualified. Lucas shares a specific email framework from a recruiter at Stripe, breaking down the subject line, the ask, and how to make it easy for the referrer to say yes. Luna pushes back on the fear of being a burden and offers a one-sentence template that flips the script. They also discuss the psychology of 'reference guilt' and why most people actually want to help. A practical, no-fluff episode for anyone dreading that message to a former boss or colleague. #ImposterSyndrome #JobSearch #References #CareerAdvice #Networking #SelfPromotion #JobHunt #CareerConfidence #ProfessionalGrowth #Stripe #Recruiting #JobApplication #WorkplacePsychology #Career #JobSeeker #FexingoBusiness #BusinessPodcast #CareerPodcast Keep every episode free: buymeacoffee.com/fexingo