How to Avoid Offending Icelanders: A Traveler’s Guide to Local Etiquette

Icelanders have gained a reputation for being laid-back, and welcoming, making their country one of the most delightful places to visit. However, like any culture, Iceland has its own unique customs and traditions that visitors might unknowingly overlook. While Icelanders are forgiving, certain faux pas can unintentionally offend them. If you’re planning a trip to this stunning Nordic island, it’s worth familiarizing yourself with these six potential missteps to ensure a respectful and enjoyable experience. 1. Not Taking Off Shoes Before Entering an Icelander’s Home In Iceland, homes are sacred spaces of comfort and cleanliness. One of the simplest ways to show respect when visiting someone’s home is to remove your shoes at the door. Icelanders prioritize cleanliness due to the often wet and muddy conditions outside, so tracking dirt indoors is a definite no-no. Neglecting to do so can come across as careless and inconsiderate. If you’re invited into an Icelander’s home, look for a spot near the entrance to leave your shoes and step inside as they do—with clean, socked feet. 2. Calling an Icelandic Horse a Pony Icelandic horses are small but mighty—don’t let their size fool you. These resilient and unique animals are deeply ingrained in Icelandic culture, and they’re anything but ponies. Referring to them as such diminishes their significance and can offend locals who take great pride in this distinctive breed. If you’re admiring an Icelandic horse, feel free to compliment its beauty, strength, or unique gait known as the “tölt,” but never, ever call it a pony. 3. Not Offering an Icelander Some Coffee If They Visit You Coffee is more than just a beverage in Iceland; it’s a social ritual. Icelanders love coffee and rarely pass up an opportunity to enjoy a cup, especially when visiting someone’s home. Failing to offer coffee to an Icelander can come across as thoughtless or unwelcoming. Whether it’s a casual drop-in or a planned meeting, have some coffee ready to serve. It’s not just polite—it’s practically a cultural obligation. 4. Not Showering Naked Before Entering a Pool Icelanders are serious about their pools and hot springs, and equally serious about hygiene. Before entering any pool, it’s mandatory to take a thorough, naked shower to ensure cleanliness. Unlike in some other countries, wearing a swimsuit in the shower is seen as unhygienic and can quickly earn disapproval from locals. It might feel awkward to some visitors, but rest assured, no one is paying attention. Embrace the custom—it’s an essential part of Icelandic pool culture. 5. Voicing Your Dislike or Disdain for Licorice Licorice is a beloved treat in Iceland, and it appears in everything from candies to desserts and even ice cream. While you’re entitled to your own tastes, loudly declaring your disdain for licorice might be taken as an insult to the Icelandic palate. To be fair, most Icelanders will laugh if your initial response is that you don’t like it but harping on how bad it tastes to you or saying that you think Icelanders are strange for liking it, won’t go over well. Instead, consider trying a piece and appreciating the locals’ enthusiasm for their favorite flavor. Who knows? You might even develop a fondness for it yourself. 6. Being a Disrespectful Tourist Iceland’s natural beauty is one of its greatest treasures, but it’s also incredibly fragile. From walking on moss-covered landscapes to littering or disregarding safety guidelines, disrespectful behavior can cause lasting damage to the environment and irk locals. Similarly, being disruptive or inconsiderate in public spaces can tarnish your reputation as a visitor. Show your respect by following local rules, leaving no trace, and treating Iceland’s pristine landscapes with care. Random Fact of the Episode Some years ago, my former in-laws came for a visit to my apartment for dinner. There was plenty of food and some dessert but my exz and I didn’t have coffee because we don’t drink it. At the time, I had no idea that having coffee to offer was so important. They were shocked and not very happy that we were not aware of this. Well, the next time we had them over for dinner, I made sure to have coffee. The funny this is that they showed up with coffee too and a french press as a gift. They made sure that they would not miss out on having coffee. I had no idea they were planning to do  that and they had no idea we had prepared coffee for them for the next visit. We all laughed about it and I learned a valuable lesson about the need to have coffee available for Icelanders that visit my home. Icelandic Word of the Episode móðga – offend Share this with a Friend Facebook Email Threads Let’s Be Social Youtube Tiktok Instagram Facebook Þakka þér kærlega fyrir að hlusta og sjáumst fljótlega.