Skip to content
How to Be Cool...and Be Popular Authentically episode artwork

Oct 31, 2026 31 min

How to Be Cool...and Be Popular Authentically

from Vanessa Van Edwards Hosted by Vanessa Van Edwards

As we get older, our definition of "cool" changes. What we felt was important back then, can be different now that we've experienced life and learned our lessons.Codie Sanchez and I talked all about what it means to be a cool kid, how cool kids interact in social interactions, and how being cool can serve you in business transactions. This was a fun conversation to be a part of!Check out all of Codie's stuff!Codie's YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/CodieSanchezCT @CodieSanchezCT Codie's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/codiesanchez/Codie's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@realcodiesanchezIn this video: 0:00 Intro1:44 What is a cool kid?5:10 Codie's interest in buying boring businesses7:00 How does confidence tie into being "cool"?9:20 Boring can be cool10:54 Cool people are generous11:30 How to introduce yourself in a cool way14:27 How to grow your friend group18:16 Paypal mafia21:22 How to attract other adult cool kids22:40 Upcoming for CodieCodie's car renting video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ukgd1jkO7TgCodie's CIA video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PrdX1T41jYs******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also a multi-time bestselling author of:Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/) Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/) and I am the creator of People School. This advanced video communication course is for high achievers who want to be confident communicators.My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted or forgotten again.PS - Get our free 60-minute online trainings: https://www.scienceofpeople.com+ Join the party on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/******PS - Join the conversation on social!☞ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/vvanedwards/☞ Twitter: https://twitter.com/vvanedwards☞ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/#cool #coolkid #howtobepopular #popular #popularity #authenticity #authentic #codiesanchez #vanessavanedwards #captivate #captivatebook #cues #cuesbook

Episode details come from the podcast's RSS feed.

Embed this episode

Ready to play

How to Be Cool...and Be Popular Authentically

0:00 31:56

No transcript yet.

Requests help us decide what to transcribe next.

Frequently asked questions

How long is this episode of Vanessa Van Edwards?

This episode is 31 minutes long.

When was this Vanessa Van Edwards episode published?

This episode was published on October 31, 2026.

Can I download this Vanessa Van Edwards episode?

Yes. Use the download control on the episode player to save the publisher-provided media file.