How to Be Present Without Forcing Calm After Trauma with Lou Lachman

Presence sounds simple—until your nervous system treats “being here” as unsafe. In this episode of The Mindful Living Podcast, host Sana explores why “live in the moment” can feel confronting, especially for anyone carrying trauma or disconnection. Therapist Lou Lachman shares how kindness, slow pacing, and body-based energy practices can create a bridge back to safety. This conversation is for anyone who feels “spacey,” overwhelmed by mindfulness, or tired of performative wellness—offering practical ways to listen to your body without forcing healing. About the Guest: Lou Lachman is a therapist whose work grew from her own healing journey. She has supported people navigating dissociation, trauma, and disconnection from the body, using energy-based approaches and deep listening. Key Takeaways: Treat “listening to yourself” as a gentle skill, not a self-improvement demand Use simple grounding: hold forehead (thinking brain) or chest (heart) a bit longer Recognize dissociation as a protective strategy—not a personal failure Aim for safety first: presence should be negotiated with the nervous system Choose tools that fit you (movement, breath, writing, rest) and keep practicing How to Connect With the Guest: Website: https://energycounselling.co.uk/    Free events running where people can get involved in Lou's work. https://energycounselling.co.uk/events/  If they want the PDF, here is the link, https://energycounselling.co.uk/heart-holding-reassurance Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? DM on PM - Send me a message on PodMatch DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik Disclaimer: This video is for educational and informational purposes only. The views expressed are the personal opinions of the guest and do not reflect the views of the host or Healthy Mind By Avik™️. We do not intend to harm, defame, or discredit any person, organization, brand, product, country, or profession mentioned. All third-party media used remain the property of their respective owners and are used under fair use for informational purposes. By watching, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer. Healthy Mind By Avik™️ is a global platform redefining mental health as a necessity, not a luxury. Born during the pandemic, it’s become a sanctuary for healing, growth, and mindful living. Hosted by Avik Chakraborty, storyteller, survivor, and wellness advocate. With over 6000+ episodes and 200K+ global listeners, we unite voices, break stigma, and build a world where every story matters. 👉 Subscribe and be part of this healing journey. Contact: 💼 Brand: Healthy Mind By Avik™ 📧 Email: https://www.podhub.club/ 📍 Based in: India & USA 🎧 Listen to all podcast shows: https://www.podbean.com/podcast-network/healthymindbyavik 🤝 Be a guest: https://www.healthymindbyavik.com/beaguest 📩 Newsletter: https://healthymindbyavik.substack.com/ #podmatch #healthymindbyavik #podhub.club #mindfulliving #traumahealing #nervoussystem #groundingtechniques #dissociation #mindfulnesspractice #somatichealing #embodiment #emotionalhealing #selfcompassion #healingjourney #mentalwellness #innerpeace #wellnesspodcast