How to Become Magnetic to Your Dream Love (Even If You Feel Moments Of Despair)

We respond to a juicy DM about a topic many struggle with: how to keep faith that the love you long for is out there.In this deeply personal conversation, we share the ONE thing that changed everything in our love lives — and it's not what you think. If you've ever had those 2 AM moments wondering "will it ever happen for me?" this episode is your permission slip to feel it all and transform it into MAGNETIC energy.Ready to go from dating despair to dream love? Your person is out there. Let's help you call them in. ✨We're picking questions from our 5-star reviewers for future episodes; DM us a screenshot of your review to @listenbeforelove on IG along with your question or situation. ❤️🌟Our communities:✨ Our free monthly workshop to kick off your month with intention✨ Elle’s dating community for high-achieving women ready to shift from exhaustion to excitement✨ Cam’s community for men with big visions who want to keep up momentum✨ Weekly walks for meaningful conversations (and newsletter sign up)More from us:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms HERE✨ Listen Before Love youtube✨ Elle’s socials and links HERE & Cam’s socials and links HERESupport our work:✨ Send us a tip if you receive valuable insights from our episodes✨ Donate to The Board Walks to bring weekly connection around the world✨ Buy us a spring water to keep us hydrated in Texas heatWho are these people? 👀⁠⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who’s coached dozens of high-performers to shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. Cameron also writes (he published 100 ⁠⁠newsletters⁠⁠ in 100 days!), hosts men’s circles and retreats for men, plays NBA2K, speaks at conferences, and hosts a monthly gratitude call alongside Elle called ⁠⁠Great Morning⁠⁠.⁠⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people build confidence, attract love, and find soul-nourishing community. Elle ⁠⁠writes⁠⁠ every day, hosts a ⁠⁠weekly walk⁠⁠ for meaningful conversations in Austin (153 so far), hosts a monthly ⁠workshop alongside Cam, and consults companies on culture and community building. Elle leads 4 communities – for women in love, deep talk lovers, and spiritual seekers. Elle worked at Meta for 7 years and was named Forbes 30 Under 30 for her work with ⁠The Board Walks⁠⁠.CHAPTERS0:00 “I Want To Believe That I Will Find Love But Will It Ever Happen For Me?”8:34 How To Go From Toxic Positivity To True Belief (Hint: Feel Your Feelings Fully)13:51 Breaking “The Woman of Steel” Mask19:27 You Don’t Need To Logically Understand Your Emotions25:23 How Moving Through Your Feelings Initiates Breakthroughs27:55 How To Help A Loved One Feel Their Emotions Fully33:11 THIS Is What Will Magnetize Your Dream Person To You41:45 How To Be The Permission Slip For Others To Be Authentic47:46 Prioritize Your Feelings To Unlock A New Reality53:35 Practical Tools for Feeling Your Emotions58:40 Life After Emotional Freedom