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EPISODE · Feb 9, 2026 · 43 MIN

How to Break the Cycle of Toxic Relationship Patterns

from Dear Gabby · host Gabby Bernstein

If you find yourself stuck in a cycle of attracting the wrong partners or repeating the same painful relationship dynamics, this episode serves as a spiritual guide to breaking those patterns for good. Gabrielle Bernstein reveals that our relationship struggles aren't coincidences, but rather "spiritual assignments" that mirror our internal core wounds and beliefs. Drawing on the profound self-healing practices of Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy, Gabrielle teaches you how to transform your greatest triggers into opportunities for growth, how to energetically shift a connection by "taking care of your side of the street," and how to raise your self-worth by learning to truly see yourself first. This episode is a deep dive into becoming an energetic match for the love you deserve while maintaining the clarity and boundaries needed for a miraculous life. Try Gabrielle’s FREE guided meditation to heal relationships https://gabbybernstein.com/relationship/ Read Gabrielle’s #1 NYT Bestselling books: Self Help: This Is Your Chance to Change Your Life. http://bit.ly/4j1asmA  Join Gabby for the Trust the Universe 21-day Challenge and learn how to co-create your dream life with the Universe  http://bit.ly/4eTlKZx If you feel you need additional support, please consult this list of safety, recovery, and mental health resources. Disclaimer: This podcast is intended to educate, inspire, and support you on your personal journey towards inner peace. I am not a psychologist or a medical doctor and do not offer any professional health or medical advice. If you are suffering from any psychological or medical conditions, please seek help from a qualified health professional. Sponsors: Use my code GABBY to save 20% at tonetoday.com Get 60% off your first order, plus free shipping, when you head to smalls.com/gabby Get 15% off OneSkin with the code DEARGABBY at oneskin.co/DEARGABBY #oneskinpod Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you find yourself stuck in a cycle of attracting the wrong partners or repeating the same painful relationship dynamics, this episode serves as a spiritual guide to breaking those patterns for good. Gabrielle Bernstein reveals that our relationship struggles aren't coincidences, but rather "spiritual assignments" that mirror our internal core wounds and beliefs. Drawing on the profound self-healing practices of Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy, Gabrielle teaches you how to transform your greatest triggers into opportunities for growth, how to energetically shift a connection by "taking care of your side of the street," and how to raise your self-worth by learning to truly see yourself first. This episode is a deep dive into becoming an energetic match for the love you deserve while maintaining the clarity and boundaries needed for a miraculous life. Try Gabrielle’s FREE guided meditation to heal relationships https://gabbybernstein.com/relationship/ Read Gabrielle’s #1 NYT Bestselling books: Self Help: This Is Your Chance to Change Your Life. http://bit.ly/4j1asmA  Join Gabby for the Trust the Universe 21-day Challenge and learn how to co-create your dream life with the Universe  http://bit.ly/4eTlKZx If you feel you need additional support, please consult this list of safety, recovery, and mental health resources. Disclaimer: This podcast is intended to educate, inspire, and support you on your personal journey towards inner peace. I am not a psychologist or a medical doctor and do not offer any professional health or medical advice. If you are suffering from any psychological or medical conditions, please seek help from a qualified health professional. Sponsors: Use my code GABBY to save 20% at tonetoday.com Get 60% off your first order, plus free shipping, when you head to smalls.com/gabby Get 15% off OneSkin with the code DEARGABBY at oneskin.co/DEARGABBY #oneskinpod Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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