How to Build a Support System That Actually Feels Safe

In this episode, EG explores what it really means to feel safe in a relationship, not just emotionally, but physiologically. Through a trauma-informed lens, she unpacks the concept of felt safety and shares how survivors of trauma, especially those healing from sexual violence, can begin to recognize, rebuild, and receive support that genuinely feels grounding and safe.She discusses the difference between being around “nice” people and being around safe people, offering signs your nervous system uses to signal safety (and danger) in relationships. EG also breaks down practical steps for building a support system, starting from scratch, and relearning how to trust connection after trauma.Whether you’re navigating PTSD, feeling disconnected from others, or supporting a survivor in your life, this episode is for you. Trigger Warning: This podcast discusses sexual violence. See the episode description for more information. Please take care of yourself when listening.Lux Resources is a North Carolina-based 501(c)3 nonprofit that supports survivors of sexual violence through providing legal resources. Survivors can access resources and legal aid for free on our website, www.luxresources.org.Follow Lux on Instagram and TikTok @luxresources for behind-the-scenes content, episode updates, and more tips on supporting survivors and allies.Want to get in touch? Ideas for resources to add to the website? Podcast content suggestions? Reach out to us: https://www.luxresources.org/contact