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EPISODE · Jan 21, 2026 · 1H 19M

How to Finally Stop Doubting Yourself and Build the Confidence You Deserve | Shadé Zahrai, PhD

from The Good Life with Michele Lamoureux · host Michele Lamoureux, Shadé Zahrai

Ever feel like you're stuck in a cycle of second-guessing yourself—at work, at home, everywhere? You're not alone. In this episode, we break down the real reasons self-doubt keeps showing up (especially for women!) and get right into the science of what's really happening in your brain. You'll hear relatable stories, the latest research, and simple, powerful tools you can use TODAY to separate from that nagging inner critic and to build confidence. It's time to stop letting old beliefs run the show. You'll learn how to trust yourself again, take bold action, and finally feel like the most confident version of you. If you're ready to get out of your head and into your life to create your best life—this episode is for you.   KEY TOPICS: ·      Unpacking Self-Doubt: The Origins of Big Trust (0:00) ·      Cognitive Load: Why Women Experience Amplified Self-Doubt (5:33) ·      The Four Core Drivers of Self-Doubt (13:23) ·      Cultivating Self-Acceptance: Saying No with a Deeper Yes (20:32) ·      Turning Feedback and Failure into Actionable Growth (34:26) ·      Why Action Precedes Confidence: Building Personal Agency (42:09) ·      Mastering Emotions: From Overwhelm to Grounded Adaptability (48:53) ·      Reclaiming Your Power: Autonomy and Conscious Choice (1:02:37) ·      Empowering Your Journey: Final Insights and Resources (1:08:52)   RESOURCES + BOOKS MENTIONED: Subscribe: https://www.youtube.com/@herstarringrole Follow + Listen, + Review: APPLE PODCASTS Follow + Listen, + Review: SPOTIFY PODCASTS Join Michele's Newsletter + Get a List of 52-Selfcare Tips   GUEST INFORMATION Book: Big Trust: Rewire Self-Doubt, Find Your Confidence, and Fuel Success Website: https://www.shadezahrai.com/bigtrust IG: https://www.instagram.com/shadezahrai/   If you enjoyed today's show, please share it with a friend. Also, subscribe on Apple Podcasts, or on your favorite podcast player!   *The Good Life with Michele Lamoureux podcast and content provided by Michele Lamoureux is for educational and entertainment purposes only. It does NOT constitute medical, mental health, professional, personal, or any kind of advice or serve as a substitute for such advice. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast or website is at the user's own risk. Always consult a qualified healthcare or trusted provider for any decisions regarding your health and wellbeing. This episode may contain affiliate links.

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