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EPISODE · Dec 1, 2025 · 24 MIN

How to Get Clear On What You Actually Want

from Do It Scared® with Ruth Soukup · host Ruth Soukup

We plan vacations with more thought and intention than we plan our lives—and then wonder why we feel stuck, burnt out, or unfulfilled. In this powerful episode, Ruth Soukup challenges you to finally ask the question most of us avoid: What do I actually want?If you've been drifting, chasing "shoulds," or setting goals that never seem to stick, this episode will help you understand why—and how to change it. It’s not about hustle. It’s about clarity. And clarity changes everything.What You’ll Learn:Why most people’s goals fail before they ever startHow cultural conditioning disconnects women from their desiresWhat distractions are costing you (and how to reclaim your focus)The #1 question that changed everything for RuthA step-by-step process to finally gain clarity about your futureHow to stop drifting and start designing a life that lights you upJoin me LIVE for a powerful 5-Day Virtual Event designed to help you step into the best version of you. The life you want is actually so much closer than you realize.In just 5 days, you'll map out a vision so clear you can feel it, then walk away with the plan in hand to actually make it happen.----------You’ve spent years showing up for everyone else—at work, at home, and in every corner of your life.But somewhere in the middle of all that doing, you forgot who you are, or what you want. You forgot what makes you come alive.It’s time to come back home to yourself—to remember your dreams, your spark, and your strength.​And that’s exactly what these five days are for.Join me to Ignite Your Best Year Yet HERE.Key Quotes:“We plan vacations in more detail than we plan our lives.”“Obligation will never carry you through the hard parts.”“You can’t build a life you love if you don’t know what that life looks like.”“Distraction is the easiest way to avoid asking the hard questions.”“Clarity doesn’t come from thinking harder—it comes from getting honest.”Resources Mentioned: Join me to Ignite Your Best Year Yet HERE.Find Us: Website: ruthsoukup.comInstagram: @ruthsoukup

We plan vacations with more thought and intention than we plan our lives—and then wonder why we feel stuck, burnt out, or unfulfilled. In this powerful episode, Ruth Soukup challenges you to finally ask the question most of us avoid: What do I actually want? If you've been drifting, chasing "shoulds," or setting goals that never seem to stick, this episode will help you understand why—and how to change it. It’s not about hustle. It’s about clarity. And clarity changes everything. What You’ll...

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