how to get everything you've ever wanted - #007

What this episode covers

Most people say you can’t have it all, but I don’t really buy that—you just can’t have it all at the same time. In this episode, I talk about my own failed “do everything at once” self‑improvement era, why our 30-goal lists never work, and how watching a young millionaire friend made me rethink how progress actually happens.I break down the “marbles in buckets” idea: you only get so many hours a day, and the more you concentrate them into one area—fitness, business, friendships—the faster that bucket fills and eventually starts paying “interest” back in free time and confidence. I also share a simple rule of thumb: stop trying to push 10 big goals at once, focus on no more than three, and let yourself build the life you want in stages instead of all at once.---Check out my habit tracking app:⁠⁠https://feelwrite.app/⁠⁠Enjoy the show? Buy me a coffee or become a member:⁠⁠⁠https://www.buymeacoffee.com/solacespeaks⁠⁠⁠My bookshop: ⁠⁠⁠https://bookshop.org/shop/solacereads⁠⁠⁠Join The Discord: ⁠⁠⁠https://discord.gg/jreFGvRmGd

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