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EPISODE · Nov 27, 2025 · 1H 1M

How to Give the Best Handjob of His Life (ft. Ashley Manta)

from In Bed With Alexa: Have Better Sex · host Alexa Andre - Sexologist and Relationship Expert

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) gets in bed with sex educator, pleasure expert, and the Handjob Queen herself, Ashley Manta (@cannasexual), for the most comprehensive handjob episode ever recorded, all from the middle of the Ionian Sea aboard a Desire Cruise.Together, they dive into Ashley’s entire sexual evolution, her journey into sex education, her non-monogamous love story, and her insanely detailed handjob techniques that go way beyond the basics. This episode is part sex education masterclass, part storytelling, part technique demonstration and entirely iconic.We cover:How Ashley de-centered penetration in her relationships and learned to prioritize warm-up, touch, and manual stimulationWhy she prefers clitoral stimulation with fingers over any vibrator / oralSquirting vs orgasm: why they’re different experiences and how Ashley experiences bothHandjobs in cars, the “blowjobs for rides” era, and giving a handjob in a DHL truckWorking at a sex shop and learning techniques from experts like Reid Mihalko, Ducky Doolittle, Tristan Taormino, and moreHer decade of learning technique through sex parties, workshops, and hands-on practiceThe “toxic tantra boyfriend” who was incredible at sex but emotionally manipulativeHow handjobs became Ashley’s specialty and why she teaches them professionallyUsing partners as “live demos” during workshopsHer handjob philosophy: connection, breathwork, presence, pressure, rhythm, and affirmationHow to handle soft cocks, why softness is normal, and how to help someone relax into arousalWhy lube is non-negotiable, why Ashley prefers silicone lube, and her love for the baby bottle warmer hackCircumcised vs uncircumcised penis techniques and what adjustments matterFull techniques breakdownWhy Ashley doesn’t enjoy giving blowjobs (TMJ + dislike of cum), and how she clearly makes up for itOutsourcing BJ duties during group play thanks to her and Nick’s non-monogamous dynamicAnal play safety and boundaries: how Nick discovered he loves anal, how they explored it safely, and hygiene must-knowsThank you, Beducated, for making this exploration possible. Use code ALEXA69 to try their platform for free for 24h and, if you love it, get 65% off their yearly pass. 14 day money back guarantee if you don't! Click here to sign up: https://beducate.me/pd2544-alexa

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) gets in bed with sex educator, pleasure expert, and the Handjob Queen herself, Ashley Manta (@cannasexual), for the most comprehensive handjob episode ever recorded, all from the middle of the Ionian Sea aboard a Desire Cruise.Together, they dive into Ashley’s entire sexual evolution, her journey into sex education, her non-monogamous love story, and her insanely detailed handjob techniques that go way beyond the basics. This episode is part sex education masterclass, part storytelling, part technique demonstration and entirely iconic.We cover:How Ashley de-centered penetration in her relationships and learned to prioritize warm-up, touch, and manual stimulationWhy she prefers clitoral stimulation with fingers over any vibrator / oralSquirting vs orgasm: why they’re different experiences and how Ashley experiences bothHandjobs in cars, the “blowjobs for rides” era, and giving a handjob in a DHL truckWorking at a sex shop and learning techniques from experts like Reid Mihalko, Ducky Doolittle, Tristan Taormino, and moreHer decade of learning technique through sex parties, workshops, and hands-on practiceThe “toxic tantra boyfriend” who was incredible at sex but emotionally manipulativeHow handjobs became Ashley’s specialty and why she teaches them professionallyUsing partners as “live demos” during workshopsHer handjob philosophy: connection, breathwork, presence, pressure, rhythm, and affirmationHow to handle soft cocks, why softness is normal, and how to help someone relax into arousalWhy lube is non-negotiable, why Ashley prefers silicone lube, and her love for the baby bottle warmer hackCircumcised vs uncircumcised penis techniques and what adjustments matterFull techniques breakdownWhy Ashley doesn’t enjoy giving blowjobs (TMJ + dislike of cum), and how she clearly makes up for itOutsourcing BJ duties during group play thanks to her and Nick’s non-monogamous dynamicAnal play safety and boundaries: how Nick discovered he loves anal, how they explored it safely, and hygiene must-knowsThank you, Beducated, for making this exploration possible. Use code ALEXA69 to try their platform for free for 24h and, if you love it, get 65% off their yearly pass. 14 day money back guarantee if you don't! Click here to sign up: https://beducate.me/pd2544-alexa

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