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EPISODE · Jun 8, 2026 · 7 MIN

How to Handle a Boss Who Holds Grudges

from The Difficult Boss Podcast with Fexingo: Managing Up, Toxic Managers, and Workplace Survival · host Fexingo

This episode of The Difficult Boss Podcast tackles the challenge of working under a boss who holds grudges long after a disagreement has passed. Lucas and Luna explore the psychology behind grudges at work, why some managers can't let go, and practical strategies for resetting the relationship. They dig into a real case study: a marketing manager at a mid-size agency who spent six months in a boss's doghouse after pushing back on a campaign deadline. The hosts break down how to distinguish a grudge from ordinary disappointment, when to have a clearing conversation, and how to protect your reputation and career trajectory when a boss weaponizes past mistakes. They also discuss when it's time to escalate or leave. No theory—just actionable advice for a tough workplace dynamic. #DifficultBoss #ManagingUp #WorkplaceSurvival #Grudges #BossRelationships #ConflictResolution #WorkplacePolitics #CareerAdvice #ToxicManager #OfficeDynamics #EmotionalIntelligence #ProfessionalGrowth #FexingoBusiness #BusinessPodcast #Careers #Leadership #PsychologyAtWork #ResetConversation Keep every episode free: buymeacoffee.com/fexingo

This episode of The Difficult Boss Podcast tackles the challenge of working under a boss who holds grudges long after a disagreement has passed. Lucas and Luna explore the psychology behind grudges at work, why some managers can't let go, and practical strategies for resetting the relationship. They dig into a real case study: a marketing manager at a mid-size agency who spent six months in a boss's doghouse after pushing back on a campaign deadline. The hosts break down how to distinguish a grudge from ordinary disappointment, when to have a clearing conversation, and how to protect your reputation and career trajectory when a boss weaponizes past mistakes. They also discuss when it's time to escalate or leave. No theory—just actionable advice for a tough workplace dynamic. #DifficultBoss #ManagingUp #WorkplaceSurvival #Grudges #BossRelationships #ConflictResolution #WorkplacePolitics #CareerAdvice #ToxicManager #OfficeDynamics #EmotionalIntelligence #ProfessionalGrowth #FexingoBusiness #BusinessPodcast #Careers #Leadership #PsychologyAtWork #ResetConversation Keep every episode free: buymeacoffee.com/fexingo

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