EPISODE · Jun 19, 2026 · 10 MIN
How to Handle a Boss Who Undermines You in Front of Others
from The Difficult Boss Podcast with Fexingo: Managing Up, Toxic Managers, and Workplace Survival · host Fexingo
In Episode 61 of The Difficult Boss Podcast, Lucas and Luna tackle the painful dynamic of a boss who publicly undermines you — correcting you in meetings, challenging your authority, or dismissing your ideas in front of colleagues. They break down why this happens, using the real-world example of a product manager at a major tech firm who kept meticulous records and eventually had a private conversation that changed the dynamic. Lucas shares a specific script for that conversation, focusing on curiosity rather than accusation. Luna brings in a counterpoint about cultural differences that can make direct feedback risky. They also discuss when the pattern is salvageable versus when you need to start documenting an exit strategy. Throughout, the tone is empathetic but practical: you'll walk away with a specific, low-escalation tactic to try before considering more drastic measures. #DifficultBoss #ManagingUp #WorkplaceSurvival #UnderminingBoss #CareerAdvice #WorkplacePolitics #ToxicWorkplace #FeedbackScript #ProfessionalBoundaries #MeetingEtiquette #ConflictResolution #OfficeDynamics #CareerGrowth #Podcast #FexingoBusiness #BusinessPodcast #CareersPodcast #Leadership Keep every episode free: buymeacoffee.com/fexingo
What this episode covers
In Episode 61 of The Difficult Boss Podcast, Lucas and Luna tackle the painful dynamic of a boss who publicly undermines you — correcting you in meetings, challenging your authority, or dismissing your ideas in front of colleagues. They break down why this happens, using the real-world example of a product manager at a major tech firm who kept meticulous records and eventually had a private conversation that changed the dynamic. Lucas shares a specific script for that conversation, focusing on curiosity rather than accusation. Luna brings in a counterpoint about cultural differences that can make direct feedback risky. They also discuss when the pattern is salvageable versus when you need to start documenting an exit strategy. Throughout, the tone is empathetic but practical: you'll walk away with a specific, low-escalation tactic to try before considering more drastic measures. #DifficultBoss #ManagingUp #WorkplaceSurvival #UnderminingBoss #CareerAdvice #WorkplacePolitics #ToxicWorkplace #FeedbackScript #ProfessionalBoundaries #MeetingEtiquette #ConflictResolution #OfficeDynamics #CareerGrowth #Podcast #FexingoBusiness #BusinessPodcast #CareersPodcast #Leadership Keep every episode free: buymeacoffee.com/fexingo
NOW PLAYING
How to Handle a Boss Who Undermines You in Front of Others
No transcript for this episode yet
Similar Episodes
Mar 26, 2026 ·1m
Mar 19, 2026 ·34m
Feb 18, 2026 ·11m
Feb 11, 2026 ·45m