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EPISODE · Jun 7, 2026 · 10 MIN

How to Handle a Boss Who Undermines Your Authority

from The Difficult Boss Podcast with Fexingo: Managing Up, Toxic Managers, and Workplace Survival · host Fexingo

In this episode of The Difficult Boss Podcast, Lucas and Luna tackle a tricky workplace dynamic: what to do when your supervisor publicly undermines your authority in front of colleagues or clients. Using the case of a mid-level marketing manager at a 500-person tech firm who was corrected and contradicted by her VP during a client presentation, they unpack the psychology behind the behavior and offer four concrete steps to regain credibility without starting a war. They discuss the importance of separating intent from impact, the 'curious clarification' technique, the power of follow-up emails that document decisions, and when it's worth escalating to HR. The hosts also share a personal anecdote about a boss who undermined a team lead during a board meeting and how the team lead turned it around. Listeners will walk away with a specific framework for protecting their professional standing while maintaining the relationship. #UnderminingBoss #WorkplaceAuthority #ManagingUp #CareerAdvice #ToxicManager #ProfessionalCredibility #WorkplacePolitics #ConflictResolution #DifficultBoss #OfficeSurvival #Leadership #CommunicationSkills #HR #ClientPresentations #TechFirm #FexingoBusiness #BusinessPodcast #Careers Keep every episode free: buymeacoffee.com/fexingo

In this episode of The Difficult Boss Podcast, Lucas and Luna tackle a tricky workplace dynamic: what to do when your supervisor publicly undermines your authority in front of colleagues or clients. Using the case of a mid-level marketing manager at a 500-person tech firm who was corrected and contradicted by her VP during a client presentation, they unpack the psychology behind the behavior and offer four concrete steps to regain credibility without starting a war. They discuss the importance of separating intent from impact, the 'curious clarification' technique, the power of follow-up emails that document decisions, and when it's worth escalating to HR. The hosts also share a personal anecdote about a boss who undermined a team lead during a board meeting and how the team lead turned it around. Listeners will walk away with a specific framework for protecting their professional standing while maintaining the relationship. #UnderminingBoss #WorkplaceAuthority #ManagingUp #CareerAdvice #ToxicManager #ProfessionalCredibility #WorkplacePolitics #ConflictResolution #DifficultBoss #OfficeSurvival #Leadership #CommunicationSkills #HR #ClientPresentations #TechFirm #FexingoBusiness #BusinessPodcast #Careers Keep every episode free: buymeacoffee.com/fexingo

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