How to Handle Criticism & Praise (Part 1)

In this talk, Fr. Matthias Shehad explores how to handle criticism and praise from a spiritual perspective. He discusses common reactions to praise, such as arrogance, humility, and self-deprecation, emphasizing the importance of giving glory to God while maintaining humility. Fr. Matthias addresses the challenges of receiving criticism, highlighting defensive responses and the value of accepting constructive feedback for personal growth. He contrasts seeking the praise of people with desiring the praise of God and encourages detachment from emotional reactions to both praise and criticism. Fr. Matthias illustrates these lessons with examples from Scripture and the lives of saints, including St. Macarius and King David, offering guidance on developing spiritual maturity by neither being overwhelmed by praise nor crushed by criticism. The talk concludes with reflections on maintaining peace through all forms of human judgment and focusing on God’s truth.