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Feb 22, 2026 1 hr 19 min

How to Have Compassion Without Collapse

from How to Human Hosted by jamiemagnant10

In this episode of How to Human, I sit down with my friend Molly G — a sober mother of three, a seeker, and someone deeply committed to unlearning. We talk about what it means to practice compassion in a time when harm feels loud and constant. We explore the tension between empathy and accountability. Between shame and growth. Between staying informed and staying regulated. Molly shares about getting sober while raising children, unpacking the religious and cultural systems that shaped her, confronting her own complicity in racism, and learning how to parent from repair rather than perfection. We ask hard questions: How do we hold compassion for people causing harm without endorsing that harm? What is the difference between shame and responsibility? How do we raise white children in a racist country without collapsing into guilt? And what does repair — with our kids, with ourselves, with our communities — actually look like? This conversation weaves sobriety, shadow work, parenting, white fragility, and grief into one central inquiry: How do we stay human — without numbing, without denying, without hardening? This is a tender one.And a necessary one.

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