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EPISODE · Jun 26, 2026 · 17 MIN

How to Have the Hard Conversations You Keep Avoiding

from Focus on the Fun Stuff

Send us Fan MailThe hard conversations you keep avoiding are costing you more than money. In this solo episode of Focus on the Fun Stuff, I unpack why business owners avoid difficult conversations - with team members, clients, and ourselves - and the four-step approach I now use to have them quickly.Inspired by Patrick Lencioni's The Motive, I talk through the shift from "reward-centred" to "responsibility-based" leadership, why most avoidance is a motivation problem rather than a skill problem, and the simple two-step test that tells you whether you're genuinely waiting for the right moment or just dodging the discomfort.⏱️ In this episode:– Why the conversations you're not having drain your energy, focus and money– The Motive by Patrick Lencioni, and the one line that stopped me in my tracks– The two-step test: are you waiting, or avoiding?– My four steps for having the hard conversation — fast🎙️ For more on building a business you actually enjoy running, join the Win the Week newsletter - straight to your inbox every Tuesday.Support the showSupport The Show--Ready to reclaim your time? Grab our free guide and start delegating all of the things a business owner shouldn't be doing: 👉 The 106 Tasks You Must Delegate--Connect with Emma!Get my personal weekly newsletter here - if you want to Win the Week, every week.World Class Virtual PA support here: Mi-PA.co.ukFollow Emma on InstagramConnect with Emma on LinkedinWatch the Episodes on YoutubeEmmaMills.co.ukReviews and Feedback:Loving the show? Your feedback means the world to me and helps others find us!Thanks so much for listening to Focus on the Fun Stuff Podcast! Let’s make business a bit more fun together! 🌟

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Send us Fan Mail The hard conversations you keep avoiding are costing you more than money. In this solo episode of Focus on the Fun Stuff, I unpack why business owners avoid difficult conversations - with team members, clients, and ourselves - and the four-step approach I now use to have them quickly. Inspired by Patrick Lencioni's The Motive, I talk through the shift from "reward-centred" to "responsibility-based" leadership, why most avoidance is a motivation problem rather than a skill pro...

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