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EPISODE · Apr 8, 2026 · 26 MIN

How to Heal from a Destructive Narcissistic Relationship | Epi 141

from The Narcissism Decoder · host Dr. Anthony Mazzella

In this episode, we’re joined by Dan Neuharth, author of If You Had Controlling Parents and How to Heal From Destructive Narcissistic Parents. Together, we explore what truly has to shift internally for someone to heal from destructive or controlling narcissistic parenting.We move beyond the surface narrative of anger and no-contact to examine a deeper question: What happens when the narcissistic parent still organizes your inner world? Dr. Neuharth shares the key psychological moves involved in healing: stepping out of regressed childhood roles, loosening a rigid victim identity, and turning the focus inward.If you are interested in a consultation or seeking virtual therapy services, Dr. Mazzella is accepting new patients. Please click here for more detailed information.  Want to go deeper? Join me in Office Hours — an open space where we explore psychoanalytic ideas together, answer your questions, and connect theory to real life experiences. Reserve your spot here  Next Meeting: Stay Tuned!  Contact me Directly with observations, questions or comments:  [email protected] You can follow The Narcissism Decoder on: https://www.instagram.com/thenarcissism.decoder/ https://www.tiktok.com/@thenarcissismdecoder https://www.youtube.com/@thenarcissismdecoder  Dr. Mazzella’s personal website: drmazzella.comDr. Anthony Mazzella is a psychoanalyst and psychodynamic psychotherapist specializing in narcissism, personality disorders, and relational dynamics.

In this episode, we’re joined by Dan Neuharth, author of If You Had Controlling Parents and How to Heal From Destructive Narcissistic Parents. Together, we explore what truly has to shift internally for someone to heal from destructive or controlling narcissistic parenting. We move beyond the surface narrative of anger and no-contact to examine a deeper question: What happens when the narcissistic parent still organizes your inner world? Dr. Neuharth shares the key psychological moves involve...

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