How To Help People “See You” More Accurately (2008)

In this episode of Next Level University, hosts Kevin Palmieri and Alan break down why feeling unseen is so common and what you can do about it. They discuss the power of vulnerability, why people project their values onto others, and how effective communication can help you be understood. You’ll hear real-life stories, personal insights, and practical strategies to express your needs without feeling judged. If you’ve ever struggled to feel valued for who you truly are, this conversation will give you the tools to change that.Learn more about:Next Level Live 2025: Saturday, April 5th, 2024 (10:00 am to 4:00 pm EST)  - https://www.nextleveluniverse.com/next-level-live/_____________________NLU is not just a podcast; it’s a gateway to a wealth of resources designed to help you achieve your goals and dreams. From our Next Level Dreamliner to our Group Coaching, we offer a variety of tools and communities to support your personal development journey.For more information, please check out our website at the link below. 👇Website 💻  http://www.nextleveluniverse.com_______________________Any of these communities or resources are FREE to join and consumeNext Level Nation - https://www.facebook.com/groups/459320958216700Next Level 5 To Thrive (free course) - ​​https://bit.ly/3xffverNext Level U Book Club - https://bit.ly/3BQBYDr_______________________We love connecting with you guys! Reach out on Instagram, Facebook, or via email. We’re here to support you in your personal and professional development journey.Instagram 📷Kevin: https://www.instagram.com/neverquitkid/Alan: https://www.instagram.com/alazaros88/Facebook ✍Alan: https://www.facebook.com/alan.lazarosKevin: https://www.facebook.com/kevin.palmieri.90/Email 💬[email protected]@nextleveluniverse.comLinkedIn ✍Kevin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kevin-palmieri-5b7736160/Alan: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alanlazarosllc/_______________________Show notes:(2:29) The challenge of expressing your needs(4:26) How people misinterpret your priorities(8:02) The struggle between uniqueness & belonging(15:39) A simple approach to being understood(21:29) When people try to help but don’t understand(23:52) Join Next Level Live: A virtual, immersive event for those committed to growth, meaningful relationships, and a life they love. https://www.nextleveluniverse.com/next-level-live/(26:27) Identifying what feeling unseen means to you(36:57) Why “agree to disagree” doesn’t work in close relationships(41:28) OutroSend a text to Kevin and Alan! 🎙️ Hosted by Kevin Palmieri and Alan LazarosNext Level University is a top-ranked daily podcast for dream chasers and self-improvement lovers. With over 2,100 episodes, we help you level up in life, love, health, and wealth one day at a time. Subscribe for real, honest, no-fluff growth every single day.