EPISODE · Oct 8, 2024 · 53 MIN
How To Initiate Hard Conversations With Marlene D. Chism
from Coffee with Kim · host Marlene D. Chism, Kim Kaupe
Timestamps:09:22 Conflict isn't the problem; mismanagement is11:38 Aggressive people shift between victim, persecutor, and rescuer18:46 Boundaries fail due to lack of enforcement authority25:48 Clarity can lead to better outcomes27:17 Lean on others to help implement change33:19 Set expectations in advance37:12 Willingness drives change by overcoming resistance43:24 Remember basic manners and etiquetteIf you loved this episode you should check out this episode How To Speak Confidently in Important ConversationsIf you enjoyed today’s episode, please:1.) Sign up for notes at copymyhomework.com for a full list of resources, links and recommendations listed on today’s episode.2.) Post a screenshot of the episode & tag me on LinkedIn or Instagram @kimkaupe so we can talk about your favorite parts!3.) Leave a positive review (shameless, but someone’s gotta say it right?!)4.) Subscribe for new episodes every Tuesday on your favorite podcast app.Connect with Kim over on the socials!Instagram + TikTok:@kimkaupeLinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimkaupe
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Ever found yourself slouching in a meeting or avoiding that tough conversation with your boss? I think we all have avoided the hard conversation, so I was excited to chat with Marlene Chism, a whiz in conflict resolution and tough talk strategies. She shared how senior executives and business owners also struggle with these issues and while clarity is crucial, the journey to self-awareness and growth is ongoing throughout your career. You'll discover why understanding your weaknesses—like dodging hard conversations or over-appeasing—can set you on a path of improvement. We discussed why enlisting others to point out your blind spots can reduce defensiveness and foster growth and how setting clear boundaries is good for your health (both physical and mental) Please send me a message if you have follow-up questions or join us in the chat next week live on LinkedIn!
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