How To Maintain Kindness, Respect, and Generosity in Your Divorce with Tom Sturges

Key Points, Top Takeaways and Memorable Quotes “I had three main ideas I wanted to follow through my divorce; kindness, respect, and generosity.” 4:29“Hey, we’re not going to be married anymore, now what?” 5:40“My number one goal in getting divorced was to not be bitter.” - Ann @ 6:35“I will give you 100% custody, without any strings attached and no no anger whatsoever, in exchange for 100% visitation.” 9:09“I know what I was able to do was to let my relationship with my wife change.” 13:23“Do everything you can to stay married. Respect your wife throughout every moment of this thing.  If you want to be generous, that’s fine, but don’t be stupid generous.” 27:44“The couples that I’ve worked with in the collaborative process are by and far my happiest divorced clients.” - Ann @ 33:01Guest BioTom Sturges is an icon in the music industry.  He served as President of Chrysalis Music and Head of Creative for Universal Music Publishing Group. He has been an active Grammy member for over 30 years.  He’s also authored 5 books and is a regular guest speaker and educator.  He is a professor at UCLA and father of 3 boys living in Los Angeles.Show Notes 0:00 - Divorce Hacker Intro0:49 - Introducing Tom Sturges2:05 - Cracking the Code3:35 - How Did You Make It A Good Divorce?6:22 - Write One Check13:18 - How the Relationship with My Wife Changed19:28 - The Importance of Not Flaunting the New Girlfriend24:00 - The Fellow in England Who Lost His Castle28:14 - Thoughts on A Loveless Marriage & Staying Married for the Kids34:13 - Scorched Earth Divorce Stories38:57 - Thank You & Divorce Hacker ClosingFor more about Ann Grant and MB Family Law, please visit: https://www.mbfamilylawyers.com/Links & Where to Find Tom Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/tom-sturges-79512a55/IG - https://www.instagram.com/tomsturgesideas/BookA Good Divorce Starts Here by Tom Sturges