How to make big life decisions with confidence

Big decisions rarely arrive without competing loyalties, uncertainty and the fear of regret. So how do you know which choice is right for you?In this episode, I share the story of accepting an international role that required me to travel for almost 75 percent of my time, and the quiet afternoon in the Cotswolds that helped me decide. I explore why guilt does not necessarily mean a choice is wrong, how an earlier decision I regretted shaped this one, and why knowing your values can give you confidence without guaranteeing an easy outcome.I also guide you through identifying your three core values, mapping a decision against them and asking what your 80-year-old self might want you to understand.If you have ever felt torn between what matters to you and what other people need or expect from you, this conversation may help you separate their priorities from your own.You cannot know exactly how every decision will turn out. But you can know yourself, understand what matters most to you and trust yourself to make the best decision available for the life that is yours to live.