How To Parent Without Losing Yourself
from Roots That Last Hosted by Jeremy Schroeder
Parenting is one of life’s biggest transitions. It changes how you spend your time, how you see yourself, and even how you experience faith. But does it have to mean losing yourself? In this episode, Ryan Bean steps into the guest chair to talk about identity, purpose, and how to navigate parenting without sacrificing who you are. He shares insights on balancing personal faith with family life, why "perfect balance" is a myth, and how embracing your identity as God’s beloved can anchor you through the ups and downs of raising kids. Episode Title:Faith, Doubt & Identity – How to Be a Parent Without Losing Yourself Episode Summary: Becoming a parent changes everything—but does it mean losing yourself in the process? This week, Ryan Bien joins the conversation to unpack what it means to hold onto your identity and purpose while navigating the demands of parenting. From finding balance (spoiler: it’s a myth) to embracing your identity as God's beloved, this episode is packed with real talk, wisdom, and encouragement. Timestamps: (00:00) Intro – Parenting & the fear of losing yourself (04:05) The identity shift of becoming a parent (10:00) Balancing parenthood, purpose & faith (15:30) The myth of perfect balance (& why it doesn’t exist) (22:10) Practical ways to stay connected to your faith and self (30:45) The power of community & finding your inner circle (40:00) Final thoughts & key takeaways Key Takeaways: Parenting will change you, but it doesn’t have to erase you. Your identity isn’t just "Mom" or "Dad"—you are God’s beloved first. Finding balance is more about rhythm than perfection. Community is essential—don’t try to do this alone. Join the Conversation: 📩 Have a question or story to share? Email us at [email protected] 📲 Connect with us @ecclesiahouston 🔔 Subscribe & Leave a Review! If you enjoyed this episode, please rate and review us on Spotify or Apple Podcasts—it really helps others find the show!
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Parenting flips your world upside down. Suddenly, your time, energy, and focus shift, and before you know it, you start wondering—where did the old me go? In this episode of The Roots That Last Podcast, we sit down with Ryan Bien to talk about identity, faith, and the struggle of holding onto yourself while showing up fully for your family. Ryan gets real about the challenges of parenting, the myth of perfect balance, and how to embrace your identity as God’s beloved in every season of life. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ Why parenting feels like an identity shift (and how to navigate it) ✔️ The tension between sacrifice and self-care as a parent ✔️ How to find purpose beyond just being "Mom" or "Dad" ✔️ Practical ways to stay connected to your faith and personal well-being ✔️ Why community is essential—and how to find your people Tune in wherever you listen to podcasts! And if you love these conversations, don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review. New episodes drop on the first Wednesday of every month.
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