How to Prepare for Your First Divorce Attorney Meeting — A 5‑Minute Checklist

Facing your first attorney meeting can feel overwhelming. In this five-minute episode Jeff Hensley walks listeners through a practical, Oklahoma-focused checklist of what to bring, what questions to ask, and how to set realistic goals for that first consultation. You’ll learn which documents move a case forward immediately, how to organize financial and parenting information so your attorney can work efficiently, and which red flags to mention up front. Jeff explains how to frame your goals — custody, support, property division — so the lawyer can give honest cost and strategy estimates. The episode also covers how to discuss fees and timelines clearly, and offers a short script to open the meeting calmly and effectively. Concrete steps, calming guidance, and a focus on protecting children and finances make this a primer for anyone preparing to file or respond.